Should I be wary of a guys intentions if he wants to hang out with me alone?

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Answer 1

Xper 4

It depends. You got to see signs of malice or ulterior motive from him. if you don't know the guy it is best to not go with him alone. But again it depends. I don't have any idea about the guy you talking about.

Asker

4 d
He has already made it know he is interested In me. The signs are there
OrdinaryDaniel

4 d
Yeah, but do you know the guy for a while that you can trust him to be together alone? That is the question. I don't know your relationship with this guy so I have a hard time answering your question to the fullest.
Asker

4 d
We’ve known each other for a year. We work at the same place closely. I trust being alone with him
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OrdinaryDaniel

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If you trust him then I see no reason why you two should not be alone together. But if I were you I would always bring something to protect myself like a pepper spray/mace or taser or alarm. Protect yourselves for the worst-case scenario. It can also make you less stressed or scared knowing you have something to protect you.

Answer 2

Asker

He has already made it know he is interested In me. The signs are there

Answer 3

OrdinaryDaniel

Yeah, but do you know the guy for a while that you can trust him to be together alone? That is the question. I don't know your relationship with this guy so I have a hard time answering your question to the fullest.

Answer 4

Asker

We’ve known each other for a year. We work at the same place closely. I trust being alone with him

Answer 5

OrdinaryDaniel

If you trust him then I see no reason why you two should not be alone together. But if I were you I would always bring something to protect myself like a pepper spray/mace or taser or alarm. Protect yourselves for the worst-case scenario. It can also make you less stressed or scared knowing you have something to protect you.

Answer 6

spartan55 | 15.7K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Should he be wary of your intentions? He doesn't know what they are either.

Asker

4 d
He probably thinks I’m not interested
spartan55

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Why would he think that?
Asker

4 d
The first time he asked I canceled. I don’t text him much and I don’t call him
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spartan55

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Then you aren't interested.

Answer 7

Asker

He probably thinks I’m not interested

Answer 8

spartan55

Why would he think that?

Answer 9

Asker

The first time he asked I canceled. I don’t text him much and I don’t call him

Answer 10

spartan55

Then you aren't interested.

Answer 11

weysally | 50 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

not really why, don't you think its nice to just be the two of you

Asker

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I don’t know if I feel the same way I do
weysally

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then if you feel that way either talk to him or leave him don't waste his time

Answer 12

Asker

I don’t know if I feel the same way I do

Answer 13

weysally

then if you feel that way either talk to him or leave him don't waste his time

Answer 14

Wise4myage | 1.4K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Yes, and especially if he wants to hang out at his place, or even yours. So hang out somewhere publicly.

Answer 15

Anonymous

Only if you see some serious red flags that make you think you're gonna get murdered or raped or something...

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Dinosaursandanime65 | 488 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Yes. Stay away from that. You can only trust Silent G’s.

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