Why do men get mad at the women for shit they not doing in their life. I realized I find myself always trying to be nice and real in my relationship but that always blows up in my face my partner takes things I say as if I'm his mother and I'm on his ass but we do have a child together and we both need to get our life together yet when I say that or anything about getting shit together he says I'm looking for a rich nigga and etc.. like I'm trying to say bae let do it together not separate but I don't know bc he seems to be better off when I'm not there ☹️
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02Maybe so but we still have a child so I can't just be a bitch
You don't have to be a bitch to be with someone better. If he wants to be in his child's life he will be, if not- it doesn't sound like much of a loss.
Yeah but a mother can't raise a man
Do you believe a boy can raise a man?
No I believe a man can ofc
It doesn't sound like he is a man. You can continue to live with the problem, or you can change it. Short term discomfort should not stop you from a long term solution.