Why do men do that?

Why do men get mad at the women for shit they not doing in their life. I realized I find myself always trying to be nice and real in my relationship but that always blows up in my face my partner takes things I say as if I'm his mother and I'm on his ass but we do have a child together and we both need to get our life together yet when I say that or anything about getting shit together he says I'm looking for a rich nigga and etc.. like I'm trying to say bae let do it together not separate but I don't know bc he seems to be better off when I'm not there ☹️
Why do men do that?
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