I am talking about coworkers (people i have to be around most of my time). I am a nice gal and shutting a number of idiots out on daily basis is hard. Easier to just be nice. It takes concentrated effort to be colder.
I see. I think the same rules apply though. You can be nice, but if you fall into people pleaser behavior then it’s going to cost you a stress in the long run with little reward in return.
Yep, guess I could be nice like to everyone yet not be TOO nice to the idiots. They dont deserve it at all. Thanks!!
Look at it this way... Would you be pity-friends with a woman?
I am not pity, nor do I feel like you women need it, however if you ladies need a ear, I will gladly listen so in short if your asking if someone needs a friend to listen to than sure
I guess its just different because you are the predator sex if you know what i mean (not trying to be rude).
Women can be just as much of a predator as men, I know that for sure. So no you aren't the lost lamb nor am I the cat that wants to eat you, some men and women will use, hurt and mistreat you just because they can, is that a good reason to shut down and stop being so friendly? No just set boundaries and makes sure that if even crosses them address them, I tend to give out 3 strikes, on the third I block them
Yeah i can do that perhaps. Then once they cross the boundary i just decide i can't even take them seriously. I am cordial but i dont take them seriously deep down and dont value their opinions etc.
You should always take into consideration of someone else's opinion. Knowlegde is key to victory even if you don't like that person unless its a stupid opinion
Their opinion is often a reflection of their low state of being. Therefore its often useless. Except that it shows me how lowlifes think.
Most people opinion are either of facts or their own nature, still taking into consideration isn't bad, who knows what you can learn, but take everything with a grain of salt
I think context of opinions is important actually... With some exceptions (and thosw tend to be obvious).
yea that will work
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