I find that its hte women that always talk to me especially the older women. They just open up to me and are so friendly. The guys , especially the young guys, usually never want to talk to me besides work related stuff. They never joke around with me or ask how I am doing. If a guy is open to having conversation with me, he is usually older such as 50s or a married guy. Sometimes I try to be friendly to the guys and start a conversation but they just seem very closed up. Its not like I'm begging for them to talk to me but I just find it weird. Am I just ugly? Do I turn off men?