Do you think he’ll regret/maybe wake up to what he’s done?

Question

There was this guy I was talking to. Over time, we admitted our feelings together. We clicked. Had so much in common. I finally opened up to him slowly, and we cuddled with affection. We talked about traveling up to places local and far away in the near future. Doing this and that.
Over time, his communication was awful. He works/worked a lot. He just never texted me throughout hours sometimes, and this was concerning. It was who he was.. Reason why I dropped over time, and I felt like he never tried with us. I tried to let him go once, and he thought I was pushing him away. I told him I’d never push somebody away like that, and he was thankful that “we” didn’t end. Two weeks later, we ended. I can’t do the whole communication thing. He’d go days/hours without anything. I’ve done my absolute best with everything, and he wouldn’t give me anything in return.

He use to tell me how much he thought about me during the day when I never got a message.
Of course, we’ve had sex. But we always cuddled afterwards. He was very affectionate towards me, but I feel like I messed up for ending things. :/

Though I know he never tried..

Answer 1

loves2learn | 152 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

Sounds like he isn’t good with electronic communication. Could you try to get together in person more?

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Asker

11 mo
I totally ended things. I sent him a last message of how I felt with everything, and I blocked respectfully. He never made me mad. I blocked due to just knowing stuff won’t change. I left him a message a few days ago. He never replied back, yet was active on another form of social media. It doesn’t shock me because he’s done it before. I felt totally uncared for. Just for the longest, and I felt like he was holding onto me, knowing I deserved more.
loves2learn

11 mo
You need a man who prioritizes communicating with you.

Answer 2

Asker

I totally ended things. I sent him a last message of how I felt with everything, and I blocked respectfully. He never made me mad. I blocked due to just knowing stuff won’t change. I left him a message a few days ago. He never replied back, yet was active on another form of social media. It doesn’t shock me because he’s done it before. I felt totally uncared for. Just for the longest, and I felt like he was holding onto me, knowing I deserved more.

Answer 3

loves2learn

You need a man who prioritizes communicating with you.

Answer 4

bowenw | 693 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

You didn't mess it up. He was the one that became distant. I'm sure he'll regret losing you if he doesn't already.

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Answer 5

EmbraceThePain | 397 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Guru

Is this the same man you’ve been posting questions about? Just curious

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Asker

11 mo
Yes. 🙄🙄 Lol. Currently not over the situation. I’m still questioning
EmbraceThePain

11 mo
Lmao.
EmbraceThePain

11 mo
Honestly, just get married already lol
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Asker

11 mo
Too bad, he’s blocked on everything. I’m sorry. I told him how I felt. He never replied back, and I’m done waiting on games.
EmbraceThePain

11 mo
I mean, it’s clear that you still care.
Time will tell what happens next I suppose
Asker

11 mo
Oh! Of course I care, but I felt like my effort didn’t do anything. I was supportive of his busy schedule. I just hope he wakes up and gets it. I tried to warn him in a way. I was supportive, because he did understand my anxiety through no communication. I just couldn’t keep doing it to myself, so I ended. Two weeks when I tried to, he thought I was pushing him away.
EmbraceThePain

11 mo
I understand

Answer 6

Asker

Yes. 🙄🙄 Lol. Currently not over the situation. I’m still questioning

Answer 7

EmbraceThePain

Lmao.

Answer 8

EmbraceThePain

Honestly, just get married already lol

Answer 9

Asker

Too bad, he’s blocked on everything. I’m sorry. I told him how I felt. He never replied back, and I’m done waiting on games.

Answer 10

EmbraceThePain

I mean, it’s clear that you still care.
Time will tell what happens next I suppose

Answer 11

Asker

Oh! Of course I care, but I felt like my effort didn’t do anything. I was supportive of his busy schedule. I just hope he wakes up and gets it. I tried to warn him in a way. I was supportive, because he did understand my anxiety through no communication. I just couldn’t keep doing it to myself, so I ended. Two weeks when I tried to, he thought I was pushing him away.

Answer 12

EmbraceThePain

I understand

Answer 13

FilmGuy93 | 1.3K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Regret or wake up? No. That would require that the guy ever felt the same connection that you did.

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Asker

11 mo
He told me (not me) that he felt a strong connection with me, and I finally told him how I did too. We started off as basic friends. I was guarded due to my past. I let myself open up to him, and we started things slow. Just cuddled and would watch movies and etc.

Answer 14

Asker

He told me (not me) that he felt a strong connection with me, and I finally told him how I did too. We started off as basic friends. I was guarded due to my past. I let myself open up to him, and we started things slow. Just cuddled and would watch movies and etc.

Answer 15

spartan55 | 21.6K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No, he won't. You were too needy.

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Asker

11 mo
So, you’re telling me. It’s okay to not hear from somebody for a week. Let’s pretend here, alright. You like somebody. They supposedly like you back. You haven’t heard from them in days, what should that tell you? I just want an honest opinion because I don’t think I was needy. I was understanding through his busy schedule.
spartan55

11 mo
There are many factors to consider. Starting with what type of relationship you had.
Asker

11 mo
Understandable. He told me that he felt a strong connection with me, and I announced that I did too. Our relationship was affectionate. We cuddled and smothered each other a lot. He thought about me daily. We then had sex too. Which it’s normal for two people who feel something for one/another. The communication he gave me was awful, and he knew that. I don’t think he expected me to run, but I did… I tried to drop him 2-3 weeks ago, and he thought I was pushing him away. Yet, I wasn’t. Respectfully talking, I explained how I don’t do that to people. But he told me how he didn’t want us to end like that, yet… communication… If his communication was so bad, why try for a relationship? He should have let me go instead of being selfish.
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spartan55

11 mo
"let you go" what is it with you girls always thinking it's the guy's responsibility to break up with you when they are the one unhappy? It makes no fucking sense. You're unhappy? You dump him.
Asker

11 mo
I totally don’t even think it’s the guy’s responsibility or a gender role. With whatever we had going on for each other, I tried to fight whatever I was facing. Was I unhappy? Of course, I let him know. I wasn’t happy through the communication, but I totally enjoyed my time with him. He didn’t make me an unhappy person. I just gave up. I burnt out without there being a form of communication. Yeah, sure. Life can get in the way, but I’m not going to stand/worry for 3-5 days of nothing.. Relationships or getting to know somebody doesn’t work like that. We were going no where.
spartan55

11 mo
Well then why did you say "he should have let me go?"

Answer 16

Asker

So, you’re telling me. It’s okay to not hear from somebody for a week. Let’s pretend here, alright. You like somebody. They supposedly like you back. You haven’t heard from them in days, what should that tell you? I just want an honest opinion because I don’t think I was needy. I was understanding through his busy schedule.

Answer 17

spartan55

There are many factors to consider. Starting with what type of relationship you had.

Answer 18

Asker

Understandable. He told me that he felt a strong connection with me, and I announced that I did too. Our relationship was affectionate. We cuddled and smothered each other a lot. He thought about me daily. We then had sex too. Which it’s normal for two people who feel something for one/another. The communication he gave me was awful, and he knew that. I don’t think he expected me to run, but I did… I tried to drop him 2-3 weeks ago, and he thought I was pushing him away. Yet, I wasn’t. Respectfully talking, I explained how I don’t do that to people. But he told me how he didn’t want us to end like that, yet… communication… If his communication was so bad, why try for a relationship? He should have let me go instead of being selfish.

Answer 19

spartan55

"let you go" what is it with you girls always thinking it's the guy's responsibility to break up with you when they are the one unhappy? It makes no fucking sense. You're unhappy? You dump him.

Answer 20

Asker

I totally don’t even think it’s the guy’s responsibility or a gender role. With whatever we had going on for each other, I tried to fight whatever I was facing. Was I unhappy? Of course, I let him know. I wasn’t happy through the communication, but I totally enjoyed my time with him. He didn’t make me an unhappy person. I just gave up. I burnt out without there being a form of communication. Yeah, sure. Life can get in the way, but I’m not going to stand/worry for 3-5 days of nothing.. Relationships or getting to know somebody doesn’t work like that. We were going no where.

Answer 21

spartan55

Well then why did you say "he should have let me go?"

Answer 22

matthonker

Xper 1

Nah probably not

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Answer 23

anylolone | 768 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Yoda

Guy's busy.

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Answer 24

In_Trance | 7.1K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.

Master

No. He's good.

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