Guys: why would a guy keep asking when are you getting back from vacation? esp a girl you met online when you got options?

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Nowadays due to online dating I’m sure you get attention from various girls. a guy who met a girl online from the same city. But she couldn’t meet up due to the fact she had to leave for vacation. Why would a guy still keep in touch with her to check whether she is back, and then he texts like “ really sucks you’ve gone for long vacation” it’s not like the girl is asking him to wait for him. He even asks send me some pictures of yourself during vacation sexy or not sexy.

Also, Knowing that there are various women online who would want to fcuk him.

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11 mo

by the way he’s the same guy who says untill you find someone waste your time with me. Smh 🤦‍♀️

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coachTanthony | 367 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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11 mo

----------------Sounds like a toxic player bad boy type guy and even though you shake your head at all of these immature gestures he is making you WANT HIM to WANT YOU. He has a roster of women I am guessing and wants you on it with all the other slut babies. This is why he keeps in contact. He is ready to add you to the roster.

~Coach T Anthony @thedatecoach IG

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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Wow smh 🤦‍♀️
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  I can’t believe a 40 year old guy who just got divorced with two kids in joint custody could do thqt. He did say he misses family life and he’s lonely and looking for friends and companionship.
- coachTanthony
  
  11 mo
  A 40 year old divorced man with two kids and joint custody is desperately trying to settle down. No. He wants to play the field. This is why he says stuff like until you find someone waste your time with me. He wants you to find Mr. Right but until then he wants to be your Mr. Right now.
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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  So he has made up his mind even without testing me ie making me live with him that he doesn’t want me?
- coachTanthony
  
  11 mo
  Most men in his position don't want to settle down or get serious after a divorce. Why would he? He has enough going on in his life right now... a serious girl friend is not one of them. Just watch his actions and words. Do they line up? Are they congruent? Probably not. Someone who says I miss family life is much different then saying I am looking for someone serious to settle down with.

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Alejandro3000
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11 mo

If a guy is truly interested in you he would be using this time to learn about you and forget sex for the minute.
We learn this from an early age because girls get annoyed or upset that he always thinks of her physically and not her personality.
You're going to feel disappointment later on and you'll be here asking us if he'll change.
You're not at an age where you can just fool about with someone, you need to find someone who wants to date you and is serious about finding the right partner. But it looks like you really just want sex because you sent him semi nudes. He did not even openly admire you and responded late. Im surprised why you at 30yrs old are acting naive?

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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He did admire me later he even got upset saying it sucks you’ve gone on vacation for so long. He’s divorced I don’t expect him to like me more or long term. Tonight he’s with another woman. He updated his dating profile saying “ I really want a dinner date run” 🤷‍♀️
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Dinner date right now *
- Alejandro3000
  
  11 mo
  Okay, that's fair enough some guys myself included do need time to really look and put it into words. This guy haha, needy much
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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He ain’t needy he divorced lonely
- Alejandro3000
  
  11 mo
  Yes that is it
- Alejandro3000
  
  11 mo
  The guy is divorced to have fun and forget about family life, you can see this in all his communication.. the final straw is him asking for lots of dinner dates

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PeacefulRainDrop | 133 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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11 mo

He sees potential with you.. believes your worth waiting for.. he doesn't want a quick fuck he wants something real.. just because women swarm them doesn't mean he wants anything to do with them

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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He’s 40 year old divorced guy shared custody with kids. Also he says you can find someone untill then waste your time with me.
- PeacefulRainDrop
  
  11 mo
  Well I wouldn't do that if he's not interested in more than sex... if your wasting time with him thats valuable time you could have met someone else that actually wants you.. he's just lonely wants some pussy to help him feel better.. if you just want sex go for it.. he doesn't want any commitments it sounds like to me
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Your right
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- PeacefulRainDrop
  
  11 mo
  Guys enjoy the chase... you are wise to stay away.. id just tell him your going to move.. get rid of him... you dont want to catch STDs from him or something...
  
  Its funny how you can read something and if you went through something similar your mind jumps to that when in reality it can be very wrong.. I just give opinions from the heart.. its hard to find a good guy its a lot like apple picking but they are definitely out there!
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  You’re sweet thank you 😊

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bowenw | 704 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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11 mo

He sounds a little needy or is head over heels in love with you.

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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He’s the same 40 year old divorced guy who told me you can waste you time with me untill you find someone
- bowenw
  
  11 mo
  I figured it was the same guy. How long are you going to be on vacation? If you think he's smothering you consider telling him he needs to take it down a notch. Do you think he is insecure?
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He’s talking to other women online and meeting up not sure why he act like that
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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Can’t be head over heels smh we haven’t met in person yet. He even says if I like you , you can move in
- bowenw
  
  11 mo
  He's behaving like he's desperate for you. Have you ever spoken to him on the phone or by FaceTime to try to learn more about him? Is he the dude that said he had another call and had to hang up on you?
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Yes same dude same
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  by the way he even said if I like you after meeting up and fcuk will ask you to move in
- bowenw
  
  11 mo
  I believe you need to spend time with him to see what he's like in person.
Anonymous

11 mo

There aren't any women willing to fuck him... that's ridiculous. Why is it so improbable that he is actually interested in you?

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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Now
  He’s the same 40 year old divorced guy who told me you can waste you time with me untill you find someone
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  So your telling me guys don’t get much girls online to fcuk. It’s a general rule online you get to talk to at least three people at the same time.
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  Yeah, that doesn't mean he is fucking any of them. Unless you are dating George Clooney.
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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  What about this? Why he say like that too?
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  40 min
  Now
  He’s the same 40 year old divorced guy who told me you can waste you time with me untill you find someone
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  Why he say like what too?
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  Maybe he lacks confidence.
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He even said I’ll try to pick you up from airport and you can touch my dick
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  Okay, why are you still talking to that dirtbag?
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Smh why you call him dirtbag? That’s so rude
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  "and you can touch my dick" and I'm rude? Really?
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  He likes me would you allow a woman you find unattractive to touch your dick
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  I certainly would never say that to a woman... wtf?
- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Yes you would if you want her sexually and she’s been nice to you
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  Okay, clearly you need to raise your standards... wow
- Opinion Owner
  
  11 mo
  And no, I wouldn't.
Omario2049
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11 mo

VERY few men get attention from women online. It's just women who think men are out here swimming in ass.

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tallcuck | 52 opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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11 mo

Are you realy so clueless? He wants you...

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- TessCasie
  
  11 mo
  Wants to f cuk me
Juxtapose | 1.2K opinions shared on Guy's Behavior topic.
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11 mo

He really likes you as a fuck buddy.

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