We don’t know each other well we just happen to follow each other ln instagram. So far he’s teaponsive and seem to like to talk to me. I’m just nervous to keep talking to me. Is he interested if he keeps the conversation going? He could just kill the conversation or give me short replies etc
I think he is very interested. Nothing is worse than giving short responses through text. Kinda rude and shows a lack of interest in the conversation. Which usually leads to awkward moments of silence. Sounds to me like he is trying to get to know you better
How he’s very interested if he doesn’t text me first?
Maybe he doesn’t want to come off as needy or clingy. Let me ask you this: Does he respond to your texts quickly? If the answer is yes that tells me he was waiting to hear from you
Yeah he always replies to my first message within 15 minutes ( When I’ve messaged him out of now where)At most so far it has taken him 1h to reply to me.
If i were you i wouldn’t overthink it. Just enjoy it and see where it leads you. Trust me , i can’t explain why we do the shit we do. Don’t try to figure us out. I have had a penis for 48 years and I can’t figure myself out.
In conclusion u think he’s interested?
In my opinion yes. Just putting myself in his shoes, if I wasn’t interested i would either not reply swiftly or reply with a short answer. Also keep this in my mind when thinking why he doesn't text you first: Some men are hunters and some like to be hunted. He could be the latter
What do you consider swiftly response?
A swift response is under 5 minutes. Anything over an hour is a slow response. Most people have their phones on their hips these days so no reason unless they are sleeping they can't find a minute to reply
Usually he replies to me like in 10-15 (like me). It’s never taken him over an 1 h to reply to me. When he replied to meThat late it was because he was running.
10-15 minutes. Sometimes quicker.
That answers another question i was going to ask: When he doesn’t reply quickly does he tell you why it took so long?Usually when a person apologizes for taking long to answer and tells you why, means he doesn't want you to think he was ignoring you.
Tbh we don’t talk regularly at all. during the conversation he told me he was having a long run and it didn’t bother him that we messaged. I actually found quite that he was messaging me while taking a run and also after the run when he went to the gym.
The conversation could’ve died couple times but he kept it going with his answers…
Well as a person who runs i will say this. I listen to music on my phone when i run and unless i am expecting an important message i don’t even check who is texting me til after my run. It ruins the pace and if i stop it leads to my body starting to cool down. So good for you. Sounds like you are interested in him. Do u like him?
How often do you guys talk?
Quite rarely on Instagram (usually when I initiate them) bylike every couple weeks. I want Talk to him more but I’m afraid of looking desperate although he’s responsive.
Yes I’m very interested in him lol.
If u are that interested let him know it bothers you that it is always you that initiates contact. Communication is very important in a relationship.
We aren’t in relationship lol. We haven’t even exchanged numbers and I haven’t even told him that I like him :D
by the way whats ur ig username? Omg not funny i was kidding sorry
I didn't mean tell him that right now. But if u 2 get to that point it is important to be open about things that bother you as well as things you like about each other
See that, it only takes one rude comment like “whats ur ig id” to ruin a good chat
Thanks for the MHO
So he could very much be interested?
Yes. If he wasn't responding, or giving you brief replies then that's a sign of disinterest. Like women, sometimes we may not text as we don't know what to say. How long have you been talking? Like I say, you might see this change. And if not and some time goes by, if you can't ask him directly then just stop for a day or whatever and see. But at this point (especially if it's early), don't worry about it. You're talking regardless and that's what matters.
What do u consider brief response like one word answers?
One word or depending on the message you've sent, sometimes a sentence is too brief. Example on dating sites, I've messaged women before and the thing a lot of women complain about is men that just say "hi" or "hey" and nothing else (even though they do it themselves lol). But I'll put thought and effort into it, several paragraphs say and I'll ask them several questions, lots of things for them to talk about and respond to and I'll get one short sentence back that MAYBE answers one question, and as brief as she can make it. That tells me there's very little interest (I honestly wonder why they are even talking to me at all lol). That's not the case with you.
He put thought in his answrs like sends me paragraph when we converse on instagram dms (like 4-7 lines long of text) even when we talk late like 11pm. It’s very early stages and I’m just wondering ehy he isn’t reaching out to me? Tbh I haven’t made my interest very clear lol.
That could be it also. If he doesn't know you like him, he might just think you're being friendly or you're just friends.
Since he’s responsive does he seem interested (I don't know why would he care to write to me paraghrap when I message him :D )
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