My crush very rarely messages me but rarely initiates me. We’ve usually only conversed wheb I’ve replied to his stories. I’ve noticed that lately he has not updated his stories. After we talked he has updated his story only once. I don't know if it Is his way of getting my attention or getting me to straight message him
What do u think?
Indeed, if it were me-I'd feel it'd be courteous to reply, but does he normally post stories? I rarely do. If he usually doesn't, it could very well be an attempt to start a conversation with you if he did want to talk. That's what I'd do, because it's something I'd pick up on if it happens more than once "oh they reply to my stories sometimes, maybe it'll work this time and we can talk" but this is just me and I'm one person in a world that takes all kind.
Also sorry I haven't replied faster, I posted this right before work
He does update his stories but lately has been updating it rarely. I feel like if he wanted to talk to me wouldn’t he keep updating it more often? Or is it actually his way of getting me to straight DM him?
That is a fair point to keep in mind, he could just be busy or occupied. Sometimes you just lose track of time and before you know it 2-3 days have passed lol. But, at the same time, he could feel like he doesn't want to over do it with the posts and is trying just to think of things that may catch your attention.
He’s went quiet for almost 3 weeks :D.
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Why they do that?
Because they are shy same reason u wouldn't ask if he likes u more then a friend
What could make him to text first? I would like to make him comfortable to text me first.
Your not able to make him message first
Why? Even if I keep texting him first?
Because u can't change a shy guy
Or by making the first move
by the way I’ve noticed that lately he has not updated his stories. After we talked he has updated his story only once. I don't know if it Is his way of getting my attention or getting me to straight message him 😂
More likely then not it is to get your attention but you already know that
So he’s doing it probably to get my attention :D?
Again u already know that
But isn’t that counter productive.. why would he do that?
Why not he enjoys it and clearly is working on you so
Well he doesn’t know that it’s working on me. And do interesteD guys even act that way…?
What do intrested guys sometimes play games like women yes
And yes he most likely knows it is working otherwise he wouldn't do it lol
How would he know that it’s working on me? I haven’t straight messaged him yet…
No but with how obvious u like him and watch his activity and pages I wouldn't be surprised if he worked it out the same way he watches yours
Last time when I replied to his story it was after he went quite for 2 weeks 😀 but then we talked and then he went quited for over 2 weeks now… This time seems like he’s going quit for a long time ://
”No but with how obvious u like him and watch his activity and pages I wouldn't be surprised if he worked it out the same way he watches yours”What? We only follow each other on Instagram.
I didn’t understand your message. Explain it to me :D.
U have on occasion messaged him after extended amounts of time that shows intrest
Oh okay. So he goes quiet so I would miss him and message him :D why won’t he just message me first if he want to ralk to me 😩.
U know the answer lol because he is shy why have u not asked him?
I don't know his behaviour is very mixed :D I haven’t talk to him because I’m shy too. It seems like he’s more shy than me 🤦♀️ And I have to be the bigger person lol
So the same reason he won't message u first is the same reason u won't ask why so why are u so confused when u do pretty much the same thing
It almost got me feeling that he doesn’t want me to reply to his stories but in that case he could have been not responsive when I message him and just hid his stories from me.
If he messages u back clearly he wants too
by the way I noticed that he made he’s instagram public after 3 weeks since our conversation lol and by the way he hasn’t updated his story during this time…idk what I should do…