I’ve been a little persistent on asserting boundaries whenever this new guy talks about affectionate things. Last night he said he will give me all kisses and massages, which he is hands on and wanna make sure I’ll be okay with his massages during cuddling. I told him it’s super sweet but I would hope for someone who would wanna get to know/like me for me first (because I feel like it was slowly more physical than me asking me questions of me as a person). He hasn’t say anything all morning since. Is that a turn off of me or he was just looking for casual?