So a guy has to want a relationship with you to look at your social media?
Lol 😂 no I don’t think so. I like him but I don’t think he wants me
"I like him"... so why are you in an friends with benefits with him? What does him watching your social media have to do with any of this?
I would think of friends with benefits is just about six so I didn’t think he would care to even look at the story or whatever or comment.
I just told you he doesn’t want to be in a relationship so that’s why am friends with benefits so I don’t
Okay there is no "caring enough" about looking at your stories. It takes almost no effort or time to look at those stupid things. Yet girls think it indicates how interested a guy is (or not). That's simply not true.And you completely missed my other point. I understand that he doesn't want a relationship. My question is why did you agree to be fuck buddies when you want more? You are setting yourself to get screwed over. How do you think it could work out in favor?
No I just chalked it up to being just that because he didn’t want nothing more so I pointed it out as being nothing. Which is why I don’t read into things at all. I would just think if you’re not interested in someone you would not put effort into commenting or having anything to say when it doesn’t involve you
Not just looking he was actually interacting with me which is weird
But you’re absolutely right it doesn’t matter I just want him to care
He was clear about the fact that he doesn't care about you already... you chose to ignore it.Again, he is not 'putting in effort' by reacting and commenting on your social media. It DOESN'T MEAN ANYTHING. Girls put such a ridiculous value on social media... mind boggling.
I already said you’re right I didn’t disagree with you. It’s just sad to think of guys like this. Not a chance to think there’s something more because all guys just want to fuck and leave. I think it’s more like the Men elude us. We have no idea what to think about your emotions. This is why I don’t think men have emotions
You're wrong about all of that. You are choosing shithead guys and expecting or hoping they will change.
No I really thought he was different honestly. We didn’t talk about sex right away we went on a date he asked me out and it was good and then I’d say a month or two and this is what happened. I went in for the right reasons. This day and age you have to expect that out of guys. In order to find out who the real guys are
Have to expect what?
That the intentions may not end up in the right place. Again it started off pretty good. We even talked about the Bible and all We didn’t even talk about sex until a month later. So don’t think I’m just talking to crappy guys it’s just hard toDecipher which ones are crappy from the good ones. And especially when they were kind a good
Going to church doesn't level up your morals.
Any woman who demands my intentions before the three months of dating gets the gate. Such an overused buzzword.
But you just said I choose the wrong people. How are you supposed to know if he’s a good guy if you don’t ask. Everybody’s not just trying to go with the flow or whatever. No but going to church helps
People always show you who they are early. You have to pay attention and not get bedazzled by the D
But I didn’t. It’s ok moving on
I can't say what you are missing, but guys pull their disguise off and all of a sudden change.
Yeah all of a sudden now he’s just having regular conversations with me. And when I bring up sex he ignores it. And it’s not that he’s not attracted to me because I've sent pictures. This is why I don’t understand men.
Why is it so impossible that he just doesn't want to fuck you right now?
Because men love sex and I’m sure that oh guys wanna girl that is non-committal and open I guess
Doesn't mean he isn't fucking someone else. Why does it matter?
Hmm 🤔 sure how would I know. Everyone has time for sex and at least head.
So go get used for sex then..
Wow I thought you would be on board with the whole men getting what they want type deal.
I am, that doesn't mean it's a lifetime absolute.
Meaningless sex seem good to y’all
Sure, but sometimes things get in the way. You don't get that?
What could possibly stop a guy from having sex?
Look I know I’m being selfish but I feel deprived especially because I don’t do this often I just
I'm sure you can find some other moron to fuck you.
Where are you getting that? Ain't no way?
@spartan55 Yeah I’m with you on this he won’t even talk about sex anymore he talks about other stuff. I thought this was just a fuck and go relationship I guess
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