Years ago when I was overweight, my mom called me fat and told me I needed to lose weight. She wasn't mean about it, she just said that I could stand to lose some weight. It's called being honest and concerned. She was fat growing up and didn't want me to wind up the same way.So I did. Now I'm healthy and in shape... better shape than most of my family! Maybe I'm just not the type to get butthurt but honestly I wish more people were honest instead of sugarcoating things!
“Says the bloated whale.” I don’t get along with my extended family, so I’d retort back with something snappy
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Thank you! You’re so sweet 🌹
Its happened, many years ago (older sister). I disliked myself and was in a low mood anyway so dont really remember how it made me feel.
They actually do sometimes. I assume it is bullshit, because I mostly look athletic.
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Had that happen. Even though I'm technically very underweight and knew it wasn't true, it still pissed me off.
I would just tell them something honest that they don’t want to hear. Like if my father told me I was fat I would tell him his breath smells like roadkill baking in the summer sun.
My family knows of my struggle with being overweight so they would never do that. They are respectful which I can't say for a lot of people.
Definitely rejected. My mom called me fat a lot when I was a kid.
At this point I would laugh since I am skinnier than most of my family.
Hmm, I ignore it, or make it a joke, but inside it definitely does something...😅
Fat would be okay for me but if someone says skinny i feel damn hurted..
Amused because I'm literally 10 pounds underweight
It’s true... so ashamed
Indifferent cuz I’m not fat😂
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