I'm 29 and madly in love with a girl who is 26. We spend nearly everyday together. She works nights and will often come over in the morning before I go to work or I will go to her. She has been talking long term very early on in the relationship. Kids, living together, marriage, etc. I'm completely on the same page. I went and bought a ring. Then I asked her parents. Lots of emotion out of her parents and myself they said I have their blessing.
However two things stood out. First, her mom said I should wait until August because it would make my girlfriend more comfortable. That is apparently what my girlfriend said when she talked to her mom about the possibility of marriage. It's just under 1 year together and I don't see a big difference asking in June vs asking in August. It also gives me the impression that my girlfriend has doubts, despite all of the grandiose talks if the future. Second, her parents also commented that she often gets bored by the second year of her relationships. Odd thing to bring up given the situation. Should I be concerned? Should I wait until August or go with my initial plan for June?
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Just because you propose doesn't mean you get married right there and then. Propose when you want to but don't get married right away. Give it some time and really get to know her. You haven't even been together for a yeR yet. Don't rush I to marriage until all your doubts are gone0