What to do when he says he wants to take it slow?

I've been dating this guy for about a month now. He's invited me out with a couple of guy friends and to an engagement party. We have a lot of fun together, but we never make out. In fact, he said "I like you, think you're cool and I'm taking things slow which is why I'm not all over you". Is this a way for a guy to say he's not interested?


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  • maybe, but maybe not. I think it's possible for guys to have a heart and to want to protect themselves so that they don't get hurt. If he's moving "slow" maybe this is why. On the other hand, if he hasn't made any sort of move toward you, i.e. hand holding, kisses, then I guess I might think twice about it. I would definitely talk to HIM about it though, and let him know how you feel.