I can understand a bride or groom to be getting together with friends and having a few drinks and having a laugh and a nice time before their wedding. I just had to really laugh at my friend's gf last week.
She told us that she wants a stripper at her bachelorette party and she even hired one for her friend's party and she went into detail about all he took off and what he did. I am in no way a conservative hardliner who tries to control people, but I had to question the whole point of it all.
I think that if you're a guy or a girl and you're hiring someone to get naked at your party and you're going to go around acting like a slut or a manwhore for 'one last night'... then why even bother getting married? I know I could not go through with a wedding if I found out my bride to be was going around getting lapdances off a stripper and having ridiculous sexually themed parties... am I the only one that feels sort of sickened by this? The whole point of marriage is settling down and spending your life committed and faithful to one person. I think that having something like that before your wedding just goes against everything that you're supposedly vowing for, for the rest of your life. I am not religious at all and I am a very liberal person generally, but the thoughts of that just turns my stomach.
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I agree with you to me i dont see why get married I wouldn't want one the only person I want in that way is the guy im dating or going to marry. To me I wouldn't wanna be with the guy if that what he wants. I get guys watch p*rn and all but then I guess then we should do that together I dont see the point but I can't control what the person wants to do. Ut their actions but what ever their actions are doesn't mean I have to put up with it I can just find someone else tha share the same or can meet middle ground with.0