He said imagine if we lived together. we have been dating a month and half. He's above 30 and thinking of moving to a new place but not far away.
I told him "just to be honestly clear I do not live with someone unless there's a ring on my finger. It's against my principles to live together if I'm not married to the guy. I'm not telling you to marry me but I just want to be honest because this is something extremely important to me that I won't change my mind on."
His response was to say he loves how straightforward and direct I am and besides that he just listened.
Does this mean he is ok with my principles? Because I like him a lot but if he would never marry me I would rather cut my losses early.
I am not trying to insult people who live together. Marriage before living together is just a strong belief of mine and I cannot sacrifice my values for a person.
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You do realize how horrible of an idea it is to get married and THEN move in together? That would be like buying a car and then taking it for a test drive. Or having sex and then putting on a condom. Or killing yourself and then writing a suicide note. Or pissing yourself and then pulling down your pants. Or... hopefully you get my point by now.1
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