Let me start saying that I'm 21 my husband is 32. I recently graduated with a diploma in medical assisting. I been looking for a job but haven't found one yet. I also have student loans I have to pay back. So I've been thinking about joining the army to help pay for school and to go back and to better myself. My husband don't want me to go but I have loans now and I want to go back to school but I'm not trying to be debt and I think it's a good opportunity just joining the reserve. Also I'm just 21 this is the time I should be getting my life together not putting it on hold for somebody who have lived through they 20s and did what they wanted. So my question what should I do.
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It has to be a discussion between the 2 of you. You have valid reasons but he may see why that wouldn't be good for the marriage. It has to be a joint decision since you are married.0