My fiance's family is nice when they're on their good side. They are the stereotypical church family with each their own liquor cabinets that turn around and criticize others for drinking. One top of that too, they don't have etiquette. For example, at our engagement party his mother didn't call my mom about who to invite and it was all his side at the party. On top of that too, no one sat with us but on the opposite side of the room instead and talk over us during games.
Due to our budget and me doing all the wedding planning myself, I wanted a formal gathering with only adults and no kids. Due to I don't want children running around at a nice venue, secondly their is alcohol, and thirdly I don't have the space.
After the invitations are sent out his whole family yells at my fiance for feeling insulted by the adult only invite and in turn he yells at me. Later his mom texts me saying "just wanted to let you know I'm beyond hurt this time..." acting as if I murdered someone. I didn't bother to text back and I feel she owes me an apology.
I'm going to be a stepmom with a six and three year old and they are the flower girl and ring bearer. Thus because he has kids then kids need to be there too. I disagree and think they can last four hours without them.
Now I'm upset and I don't know how to handle it. He wants kids and I don't even though I'm doing 98% of the work. Who's in the right?
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If he had his ideas on how he wanted the wedding, maybe he should of helped out more with the planning. Too late now, no kids, oh well.1