should I be offended if he only spends $50 on an engagement ring?
- be happy he wants to get marriedVote A
- be offended that he doesn't want to put more into itVote B
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That depends on how much he earns, if he's really broke and $50 is a lot of money to him then it's still a big thing for him, he has to sacrafice more than a millionaire spending $10000 on a ring.
Or are there other reasons for being frugal, is there something else you'd be saving that money for together? I splashed out nearly a month's wages on the engagement ring but had a very cheap wedding because we wanted to spend the money on a deposit for a house.
So it depends, nobody should have to spend lots of money to prove their love, but if he's just being cheap and refusing to spend money on something that's important to you so he gas more to spend on himself, then maybe that's a warning sign about how mature and commited to you he is.3