So my man and I have been together a year. He deploys soon and it was always the plan to get married either before or after. weve both met each others families, the families are for it. We already love together so there won't be a huge move in shock. We both agree on family, know eachother finances, etc. it's not a step we take lightly and it's something we are ready for.
For many different reasons it's seeming like eloping is the way to go. And then when he returns having a big party.
Have any of you guys/gals eloped or had a civil/ courthouse ceremony?
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Obviously marriage is Super Serious Business but oh my gosh that sounds so cute! I think he gets a pay bump if he's married too. If you guys feel ready to get married anyway go for it. At the same time there's something to be said for waiting until after his first deployment so you can see how you feel being in a long distance relationship. I'm sure there are other variables not listed here so it's your choice.0