Monogamy? So many believe believe in happily ever after and that their loves life will last forever. Yet, the vast majority of people get divorced. So many people are against polyamory, and yet so many of you probably deal with break ups and divorces and some of you never even find love. It seems silly to believe in this ideology of having one partner when in reality most of you will go through many partners throughout your life time and get divorced and start over again. Why are people against polyamory?
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Monogamy is hard, but it is by no means impossible. People will say "monogamy is possible i you find the right person" but that's wrong. And that is part of the initial reason divorce rates are so high. Instead of looking for the right person, you need to make YOURSELF into the right person.
Everyone is searching for Mr./Mrs. Right, and are so caught up in it that nobody is bettering themselves and making sure they are prepared for a committed relationship. As a result, nobody IS the right person because everyone is too busy searching for the right person.
But if everyone focused on making themselves the right person, then EVERYONE would be prepared to form a committed relationship, and it wouldn't be as hard to find that special someone.1