I'm 28 now and ready to settle down. But I'm dating these two girls and can't say wich one I prefer more.
One of them is 27 and looks more mature and ready to settle down also she is really nice and good girl like a classic model of a good wife and mother.
The other one is 22 she is a nice girl too but more active and outgoing and fun she is more modern girl.
Its so hard to decide between them. Could you please help me with it?
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Sounds to me like the first one you genuinely like and respect, you seem to think you could have a good, solid marriage with her. The second one you genuinely like, she excites you and you have fun with her, but her age makes you realize she still has a lot of growing up to do, and between now and 27-28, she will change, it's inevitable. Only you truly know them, their character, personalities, etc, but it sounds like you feel by choosing one, you'll be settling for missing what you like about the other. Honestly, you need to either see in one of them the qualities you like about the other (Is the first woman no fun? Does she make you laugh? What are the serious, responsible qualities in the second woman?) or you need to find one woman who possesses all of the qualities you'd like to have in someone you want to spend your life with. I question the fact that either of the women is right for you, long-term, tbh. Normally when someone (but especially a guy) finds the woman who he wants to marry, he knows it pretty solidly and isn't questioning the way you are. Good luck to you!2