My husband has done things in the past like looked up photos other women and has lied about small things before that seemed big at the time of course now there petty. But the photos happened recently and I want to let it go and just forget about it. I have never been a very secure person. By that I mean I've always been insecure until I meet him and until these things started happening and now I'm going crazy thinking I'm not enough that he's cheating and we fight all the time Now I just want to let it go and forget. He's never cheated on me. And I just move on from this and be happy again. But. every time I try I go back to thinking these horrible thoughts. So how do I move on and let go of what he's done in the past?
Girls, how do you let the past go?
What Girls Said 2
it depends if i want to or not.
as for this... i swear if he wasn't ur husband id tell u to leave. but u need this to work. first, u need to confront him. u tell him how u feel and u need to reach a conclusion where u know it isn't gonna happen again. u need him to prove his love for u.
second, u heal, and u understand him [if he's to be understood]. male desire in general is weird. sometimes they dont think. i dont think it's always an excuse, but sometimes it needs to be.
as long as he still loves u, and u want it to work, u can get through this. it just needs effort- from both of u.1
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