Naturally I'm excited and want to tell her, but at the same time, she's going through a rough time having called off her own wedding and I'm not sure if she's in a position to share in my joy.
Should I tell her anyway... or wait?
I would hate for her to find out from something as silly as a Facebook comment from family who already know instead of coming directly from me... but at the same time, she's feeling down and I'm sensitive to that.
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I would tell her, but gently mention why you feel sensitive about it and explain you wanted her to hear it from you. You can't beat yourself up for being happy, but don't gloat or shove it in her face. As long as your delicate she should be happy for you. It's not like you caused the break up or the negative things in her life. Try to make time for her in all of this too. Maybe have a girls day or night out with her soon or something to lift her spirits up.0