My husband was a very gentle nice boyfriend. He wanted to me to marry him, and he said to me that he would do anything for me.
Now we are married, and I am not allowed to go to another city which is only 3 hours away from home without him. I am not allowed to talk about my ex boyfriends nor male friends. I had to get rid of some of my good friends, because my husband does not want me to see them. He forces me to behave as I am believing in his religion (he is Muslim). I am not allowed to wear skirt if it shows my knees. I am not allowed to travel alone. He gets angry much more easily than before we got married. He shouts at me. I have no freedom.
I talked with his sister about his behavior, and she got shocked, because she did not know how he really is. I am doing my best to keep this marriage, but it seems he does not want to treat me nicely any more. I want to leave him, and I want to be free to go anywhere again. I would like to get divorced in the future, but should I talk with a solicitor first or my husband first?
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It sounds as if your husband may not be receptive if you brought it up. Talk some more with his sister, maybe they have had this go on in their family before, or she could possibly know someone you could talk to about help.
It may be his religion, or maybe he is really insecure about the possibility of losing you. Talk about it with him if you can, but tread lightly. The solution to this problem should lead to your happiness and well-being; even if that means you aren't married to him any more.
How long have you two been married?1