Do you feel that its only RIGHT to invite those to your wedding since they invited you to theirs?
What Guys Said 4
I invited immediate family and all aunts. uncles, and first cousins. Beyond that, I invited who I wanted to invite.1
Yes, sounds fair.0
What Girls Said 5
Depends. If they got married in June and I get married in July of the same year then yes.
But my friend in high school got married 4 years ago when she was seventeen. I went to her wedding. But I probably won't be inviting her to mine in the next few years. We haven't spoken since HS graduation. It would be odd to invite her.1
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No. I'll invite the people I want to invite. I'm not going to invite people just to be polite because they invited me. I'm not paying a party for people I don't care about.1
No, I have no control over if people invite me to their wedding or not, but I do have control over who I invite to to mine.1
Well, this is kind of a double-edged sword. On the one hand, you invite them because they invited you, even if you don't like them/don't want them there, and on the other hand, you don't invite them and feelings get hurt/people get upset. I, personally, would only invite people I really wanted to be there, but I guess my advice, not knowing all the details of your situation, would be to choose whatever option is the lesser of two evils for you.1