My best friend is getting divorced his wife was sleeping with her boss. Didn't blame him at all but her cheating was something he couldn't get passed and her lying. Horrible thing is he loved her so much and she loved him (ironic). She seems to be going mental crying and begging him but he just won't talk to her because he says it hurts too much. He directed me to some sites that have helped him. They happen to be infedility sites and wow! Was I shocked!
the stories people have posted (for support) are just heartbreaking even those who cheat "I loved him/her! I had no reason to cheat she won't forgive me!"
its very frightening which makes me wonder if the thought of a life long happy marriage is just a myth, or is this just a small group of people who tend to be unfaithful to each other?
I know first time marriages tend to have a 50% divorce rate those that mean that well 50% get to have a happy life long marriage? I guess also I've read 2nd marriages have like an 80% success rate. So I guess just what happened to my friend and what I've been reading marriage (giving your love and trust to some one is very scary).
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Well it really depends on the couple and how much commitment is involved. Personally speaking we will have our 23rd year this coming August. Yes, things have been rough sometimes but its all about sacrifices you make as a couple for a better outcome.
I know couple who didn't last 8 months and some are going strong like 30 years. It all depends on the couple. 3 key things i have learned over my marriage is communication, trust and care is the main things for a good lifelong marriage. :)0