Since the birth of our beautiful boy things have changed, I've always taken pride in my aperence and even lost the baby weight and then more, i cook, clean take care of our children and keep myself looking good. But lately i have noticed other men. Fit, tall masculine men. My husband is the best man i have ever known, he is a heavyer set man but i am still attracted to him. Before our son i had never noticed other men, and since now im at a "extremely fertile " stage as my doctor calls it i can't help but look or think about it. Tall lean men with olive skin and tight muscles with dark hair... i know this is only a fantasy of mine and i wouldnever give into ttemptation but i can't help but feel horrible. I feel like it would hurt my husband if he found out.
Most Helpful Guy
I would be pretty pissed off. Don't get me wrong, there's no problem with a fleeting thought. But if she fantasized about other men to orgasm? I would leave her. Just exercise with your husband at your home sometimes. Tell him that you want him to look good for you as well. This is such a simple fix. So please don't turn into one of those slut wives where you try to find any excuse just to cheat. Sure, you say that you won't ever cheat on him now. But you know that's bull. Soon you're fantasizing, then that leads to flirting with other men just for fun. Then you start to make physical contact with them just to get your heart going. And before you know it, You make a "Mistake" by getting drunk one night and fuck another man and betray your husband that you supposedly "Love". breaking his heart to the point he doesn't even see you as human anymore. just a no good dirty slut who can't be trusted. And since you have a kid, he'll most likely stay. But never again will he love you or look at you with those loving eyes like he used to. And he's either going to fall in love with another woman and have sex with her and give her his heart. Or he's going to eventually have sex with you just to get rid of the sexual need. He won't make love to you ever again. He'll just fuck you like a whore. He'll fuck you until he cums and he won't give a fuck about your orgasm.
So are you a horrible wife? No you're not, not as long as you remain faithful. But are you a good wife and person? Right now, no you're not.0
Most Helpful Girl
Its your hormones...0