I'm not saying I personally won't ever get married, but I see so many posts on here and on other online places always going on about marriage I get don't get it. I mean marriage doesn't mean love and you can unconditionally love someone without getting married. And when ultimatums are given saying if you love me then you'll marry me, cus I've heard of that before making someone 'prove' their love. Other cases I don't understand people's opinions is babies being born before marriage making a 'basterd' child, in more old fashioned areas I understand this concept but I'm directing this to modern societies. And before someone mentions this I fully accept marriage I just don't understand why some people make it their goal in life or gets really upset/think a relationship isn't 'going' anywhere cus there's no proposal or wedding in the near future.
Most Helpful Guy
You can blame culture and religion.. I had my own reasons for getting married like the fact that I didn't want to be alone.2
Most Helpful Girl
I personally want to get married because I would like to be able to share my life and create a family with the man I love one day. Sure, you can do that without marriage, but seeing how many young people today have children with multiple fathers or aren't with the person they had their child with in the first place. In my opinion marriage is a more solid form of commitment. Because divorce is expensive. You don't just marry someone to marry someone and if things don't work out then you just break up and that's that, you should be serious about it and the person you're marrying.4