Okay! I'm just asking this cause I'm a little confused with my situation now and now started to question myself if I'm not really a guy type to marry, I mean I've been in a relationship with this guy for almost 10 years and we have a 8 months old baby already and still not married and our relationship is okay, happy and we are both in love. We have both our own career and I think we can pay for our wedding.
Most Helpful Guy
You guys have been together and yet not married but have 8 months baby now. Not a good sign if you guys wanted to get married. Should've waited till you were married to have kids. These questions should've been answered before having a baby.
There is genuinly no clear answer to this, as it is only your boyfriend who can answer this question. I would suggest you do talk to your boyfriend as soon as.2
Most Helpful Girl
Because by living with a girlfriend, they can enjoy all the benefits of a wife without having to say, ''I do."
This is a no-risk way to test the idea of marriage. Since they don't have to worry about their biological clocks, men say they want to wait until they are older to have children.
They really do not want to be pressured into marriage by a woman whose primary goal is to have kids.
And also their greatest fear is that marriage will require too many changes, compromises and responsibilities. After all, it's a lot more fun to play poker with the boys all night long.
Wishing you the best of luck.0