I'm south Asian and am 19 rn. I'm gonna be getting married in a couple of years, probably at 24-25. The thing is that I'm scared of life after marriage. I think of it as only being cooking, cleaning, taking care of my husband, and nothing else. Nothing fun or anything. My fiance is Pakistani and so am I but i grew up in a western country and have a very modern and western mentality. Its as though after marriage, life of misery and boredom and problems starts. Are any of you married to a south Asian? How is your life? Even if you aren't, but are still married, what do you think?
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GAG is really not the place for this
but, why dont you wait for a good western guy?
i personally hate guys from my country (proud of my nationality but hate guys here) because of their mentality and how they act (some of them at least) and i want to marry a foreigner because in my heart i feel like itll be better and ill be happier
I don't know about the rules of your family but if you can... maybe you can consider a western guy too or a modern asian/pakistani guy... you exist, a male version should exist somewhere too right ? lol
anyways you're 19and getting married at like 24... there is sti plenty of time to think this through
or talk to your fiancee maybe he has a "western mentality" too0