I cannot wait to get married to my boyfriend I really love with all of my heart. He wants to wait awhile to get married but I want to get married now. He thinks I am doing it cuz I am insecure and wants kids sooner. I am not insecure at all or anything just excited to be one with him. I want to wait awhile for kids tbh I am not mentally prepared for them at all but I talk about them a lot cuz I want them. I am just excited to be united with him ASAP. I know he promised to be with me but I am really excited to be his. I am not by no means in it for money, kids or to fufill any insecurities. I just really love him and cannot wait to be his and his alone. I know he will see this guaranteed but Idc.
Most Helpful Guy
He is smart to want to wait. You guys are too young still and too much going on and can change at this stage of your life. Experts say you should wait until your 25 at least. By then, you both are pretty settled with how your life is going to go. If you're love is that strong, it's no big deal. You'll be just as in love with him at 25 as you are now. Being married doesn't change anything, it just makes it legal on paper.3
Most Helpful Girl
Marriage is a big step and in order to get married, you have to be emotionally, mentally, physically, and financially ready. First of all, you have really think about it and ask yourself, Why do you want to get married and what do you love about your partner? If you find yourself struggling with trying to find the answer, then you are not ready to get married. In marriage, the two of you have to put in work so this marriage can be successful. For example, 50/50 which means that the two of you should be able to make decisions together like adults, satisfying your partner's needs, and taking care of your household. To get married, you also have to be financially ready. If you don't have a nice financially stable job or a career, then how will you pay for all of your expenses. Marriage is a lifetime commitment and when you say " I do" at the alter, your vowing to God that you will always love, cherish, care, support, and always be there for your partner no matter what. When you get married, the two of you will become one and will have to share everything together such as bank accounts, bed, food, and body and more. Marriage is a serious commitment and if your really serious about getting married then do as you please but think about what I have told you and see if you actually wants to get married. Since you are very young, ask yourself if this marriage will interfere with your education? Will it be better for you to make this commitment when you're a lot older? I'm 20 but never had a boyfriend and if I did, I would think about all the responsibilities marriage came with. I hope you do and I also hope this helps. Have a nice day and feel free to ask me any question.☺2