I've been with my boyfriend for about 9 months now. We love each other very much and have discussed our commitment to one another a few times. Recently he keeps mentioning and bringing up marriage and proposals and things; it seems to be on his mind
Then last night he told me that he feels like its 'more a matter of when than if', and that he'd imagined telling friends that he was engaged
I wasn't sure what to say... if he asked me to marry him I would say yes, though it seems quite early still to me, and I'd like us to live together for a while first. But if we both think its just a question of when, isn't that basically what engagement is? What does he want me to do or say? Is he planning to propose or is he just 'testing the water'?
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after a few months my boyfriend said "whenever you want to get married, just let me know" which meant... I mean I was like "ok, whatever I"ll pretend I didn't hear that" and then one night he asked "do you want to marry me" and I was like "huh? and I was like do you want to marry me?" and he was like "yes" right away... anyways... hmmm... it must be seriious... ask him "are you really proposing?" next time he talks a lot about marriage... that's what I did... and he said... "yes, so what is your answer?" and I said yes ofcourse... =)0