Is it OK to still think about my ex if I'm engaged?

My ex and I broke up 4 years ago... I know, that's a long time and I should be way over it by now! It took me a long time to find someone that was able to take my mind off of my ex and we've been together for almost 2 years now and recently got engaged. I love him very much but I find myself thinking about my ex maybe too often. I have dreams about him and then it makes me realize I still miss him. We talk on occasion, I don't think he's interested in a possibility of us being together and honestly I don't think I would be either. I guess I'm just wondering if I should feel bad about thinking about him and having these feelings! please help!


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  • You should cut him out entirely. Otherwise, you run the risk of allowing him to sabotage what you have with your current fiance by way of your distraction and guilt.


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