Most Helpful Guy
My mum took my dad back 5 times over 6 months, each time he went back to bitch face. On the next time she kicked him out and he made out like my mum was the bad person, even turned my little brother against my mum. My mum was angry, she is so meek and mild but still put a garden Spade through bitch faces window... No one believed she had it in her.
15 years on and my mum is a stronger lady, strongest woman I know. My dad died a year or so after they split so we will never know what happened next.
You are no idiot. Make of my story what you can, you are not the only one. Take care
Most Helpful Girl
I believe any sort of betrayal is unforgivable. I wouldn't view you as stupid, just naive and foolish
People who cheat one time have showed you what their future potential is with you. If you stay with someone after infidelity, you are allowing them to set the boundaries for how they treat you. He knows you'll forgive him and take him back after he cheats on you. So he knows he has nothing to lose if he does cheat again.
If you stay with him , it means you lack self-respect. Because a person who has self-respect would never tolerate infidelity