That's just my two cents👍
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I know I'm more practical and logical for the most part for these questions then real world values intended. Proposals are weird for me. It came from a time when a marriage prepositional also included 2 pigs and an anchor of land or an army allegiances between families for an upcoming war.
Old values controlling things they never imagined. It seems like a really odd side step of political marriages and the expectations of a public proposal. The grandeur of the whole thing and the evolution of how it came to be. It's odd all around for me.
Yeah. It's putting pressure on the recipient. If the plan backfires, then the proposer will get VERY embarrassed very quickly. I don't agree with sharing private moments publicly.
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Personally, I'm cool with a public or a private proposal. Either or, I have no real biased or preferred feelings on them. They just are what they are. Some are cute/simple and others over the top. Overall, I think for me it would all depend on the creativity of it all. Not the flair/glamor or simpleness.
If my boyfriend proposed to me in a way that's special and showed he put a lot of thought and time into it. Whether the fact its public or not wouldn't matter. His efforts would. And I'd be grateful with either.
It’s very risky and pressuring for the person been proposed to! I don’t find it appealing, I think if the relationship is of 2 people, why bring spectators who are stranger into the picture? I just don’t like the idea of public proposals. 🤦🏻♀️😩