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No, because I will not get married. Prenups are great for attorneys who get paid to produce them and then get paid to defend them when the divorce comes. Premarital agreements are regularly set aside in whole or in part at the sole discretion of the judge. The judge can do so for a wide variety of reasons. A favorite is "fairness." If your spouse worked at McD's and you are a real estate executive, your prenup can say the spouse gets $25,000/month if you divorce (what he/she formerly took home per year). Doesn't matter. The judge can look at your portfolio and say, "No, I am increasing that to $100,000 per month, plus the principle residence, plus the Sterling, plus..." Even if he/she committed adultery, it doesn't matter. Marriage is betting half of everything your own and will ever earn on the hope that your spouse won't change his or her mind.
What for? If a divorce comes along later: the man is fucked anyway. With, or without a piece of paper.However... there are ways to NOT get fucked:- don't get a divorce- don't get married- don't own stuff (officially)- get rid of stuff (officially)- once your ex begins to play foul: play fouler
It depends. If I inherit less than 2.5 million from my parents when they die I won't sign a prenup and if I inherit more than 3 million I will sign a prenup cause I don't want the guy to take half my assets in a divorce. I plan on living in one of my family's 3 properties after I get married - if my future husband has his own property he can sell that and take the money and spend it on whatever he likes while he lives with me on my parents homes.
Don't need it if a divorce will never happen. Marriage should be for life. Till death do us part.Why even get married if you already feel like you'll get a divorce. Marriage is a choice, not an obligation lol so no, won't be getting one. And my fiancé doesn't want one either.
I will not... marriage us supposed to be about trust and connection. If you start with a no issues way out you are not really committing to anything. If you do not honestly believe that you are going to stay with this person, do not get married. If you think they are after your wealth, then do not get married. I feel like it undermines the e tire concept of trust and commitment...
If he asked for a prenup i would, its his money not mine. I doubt id ever need to ask someone to sign one. If im marrying him it has not one thing to do with money.
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Prenups have been signed in my family, and it hasn't prevented people falling in true love, having a family and growing old together - what marriage is really about. If I asked her to sign a prenup I hope she would, it shows respect and trustability. Likewise if she wanted me to sign one, I would. People can just marry for love
Any man that would get married in a society with no fault divorce and women file the majority of divorce he has to be insane.
Women and men both file for divorces, you can't accuse one filing for more than the other
The only way a prenuptial agreement is necessary is if you have million of dollars and a whole lot of equity and real estate. With less than that it can easily be settled with a mediator in civil court.
If you can't trust who you marry then don't get married period. Marriage is about sacrifice. Not keeping everything you have and not share and give. I'm not there for money. But to build with a person. I can never be with a selfish period.
Marriage is about swearing if off to be 100% MGTOW monk, which was exactly what I did.
That's you. Hopefully your not fornicating and masturbating in exchange for a woman or else that would make you a hypocrite.
On don't get me started on hypocrisy. I could sit and point out the ways women are hypocrites all the day long.
That's okay. But don't assume all of us are like that. Many of you men can't even try to keep us anyway. There are men who doesn't think like you either.
If the judge is a female, she can just throw out your pre-nup and there's nothing you can do about it.There is no law that can stand up to a corrupt court system.
Yes. For once as a legal security in case of divorce. And secondly to separate assets as I have been self-employed my whole life and in case I fail - then my depts don't become hers.
I feel like it's important. So if it end in a divorce she would only get what she have bought for her own money, and only get money she have managed her self.
A prenup is useless in the US. The courts will throw it out and it won't touch child custody issues, the man is the loser there by default, why men don't want to get married anymore.
I would not consider marriage if there wasn’t a prenup. Divorce rates are too high now and you need to protect yourself.
I suggested one, as a sign of faith. He ended up not wanting one as a sign of his. 🤷
Signing a prenup shows that you truly are in love with your partner and it isn't about financial wealth. Owe and also, I EARNED my money. NObody else should. If you live with me then we can share our wealth together.
You haven't even started something and already think for ending it... This is what I think for the prenup and I don't like it
Yep.If you're in the marriage for love and me, and not what I have, then you have no reason not to sign a prenup.
Any man who asks me that shall get dumped. A marriage is a lifetime commitment where we lead one life together and we share everything, including money.
Yes marriage is a life time commitment until women decide to end it. And then it's a lifetime retirement for women on the man when she ends it and takes off with his kids house cars income etc etc. One of the reasons I have sworn marriage off to remain MGTOW monk for the remainder of my life.
And also, I bet you furthered your career too, you know, just in case your marriage ends.
does that mean you don't believe in divorce under any circumstance?
If a man is foolish enough to get married today he'd better insist on a prenup.
Absolutely insulting to ask for prenup. If you have doubt, don't marry.
I see you are a newbe to all this. You'll learn the do's and don'ts one day.
@ThisAndThat Thanks for nice advice.
I'll never get married but if I did we will sign one or no marriage. Women who are so set against prenups clearly have devious intentions, they want to be able to opt out at any time and mooch off him indefinitely, which is disgusting
dont get married at allbut if you decide to do it better sign up prenup , can't trust these women nowdays.
prenups are nothing but toilet paper. they dont work. dont get married!
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I think this should be compulsory
I won't need to if we truly love each other☺
Yes. I think it is a smart move
Yes I will sign a prenup
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