It seems like in modern times and ancient times, a marriage that lasts and both people are happy is extremely rare. A lot of primitive cultures that survive don't have husband and wife households. All the men live in one part of the village and the women in the other. This seems to be how it is in the animal kingdom. Animals will mate but the sexes will live separately. I have always wanted to get married, because it seems like having a friend who will always be with you, but I've seen so much hatred and animosity in marriages and divorce that I wonder if we're all doing something wrong.