Thanks for your perspective.That is smart.I was only 20 years old when I met my ex wife and it was definitely based mostly on physical attraction.Our relationship was challenging to say the least.I will take your advice and try to find a woman with a similar lifestyle to my own next time so we can be happy doing the same things.
You are very kind thank you , Glad I was able to help.
Did your 2nd serious relationship last longer than the first?
Yes it did, by many years.
Did it end for the same reasons as the first?
No, different reasons.
I'm just curious to hear if people had successful second marriages.I'm good at being a husband, I just wonder if I should do that again or if it's just a waste.
That's true, but fortunately or unfortunately depending how you look at it, I was living paycheck to patched when I got married.When it ended we were still just getting by.If anything, she had more to lose, but I didn't take it from her.I honestly think the truck is to be broke when you get married, then you have nothing to lose. LoL!
Sorry for the typos.Autocorrect is really doing a number on me. I meant, "Paycheck to paycheck" and "The trick is to be broke when you get married."
I understood it 😛😊
@VIVANT Oh good. 😄I turned off the autocorrect now.Hopefully l won't have strange words in the middle of my sentences anymore.
Yeah autocorrect can get pretty awkward 😂
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I hear you.I hope your 1st marriage is long lasting.Thanks.
Yeah, sometimes I feel the same way.Other times I'm curious if the experience I have from my first marriage would help me to avoid issues in a 2nd one.
I understand.I really felt that same way for years and I focused on bad memories of the end of my marriage.Now that I have closure from her I occasionally remember the whole relationship.The good years before and during the marriage that actually represented a much larger portion of my life than the bad times. I'm still not eager to marry again and I would rather have a loving relationship without the legally binding contract.I'm just at a weird point where I'm not completely opposed to trying it all over again.
Nice, I glad it worked out. 😅
Wow, that actually sounds like an interesting way to live life.To have 3 long marriages would be fulfilling in a crazy way.
That's a good point.I have had half a dozen shorter relationships since my marriage ended.I suppose most people don't hang on as tightly as they did to their first marriage.The fear of being single is gone now too.