I know right? A woman who has been riding the cock carousel her entire 20s not only thinks she is entitled to that traditional man, but also demands one.
Right. And they think they can start a fight with random dudes on the street & we’re obligated to protect them. When we didn’t endorse their actions & they’re not loyal to any man? Crazy
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I was the same way
The lock is a promise to the children, and to the families. It also lawfully binds the greater families to each other, and creates consequences should that security be compromised later on, since none of us ever 100% knows what the future holds. Don't be so shallow.
@ObscuredBeyond but again, no lock is needed if your secure enough in knowing the relationship is strong and neither one of you will part, why do u needf that lock? i think guys who get married are jus scared the girl will run away and develope feelings for someone else, so she marries her so she can't escape, but u she get a divorce and unchain herself from that lock so whats the point anyway? its stupida strong relationship where both love each other unconditional needs no lock, both will stick together voluntarily
if i ever find a girl who truly loves me back il never get married and won't need to, we will stick together cos we want to
or why not jus do ur own homemade marriage where u dont lawfully do it officially but jus make ur homemade sorta 10 minute thing where u put on ring and pretend your married? that would be less of a money waste
It takes a certain divine element to cement that security. To not make a public confession of that secure commitment, and make it legally binding, is to dishonor that element, and take the relationship for granted. That is the hubris that begins the erosion of that security, until the security you speak of gives way to self-delusion. If she says "no way will I marry you," it means I'm not really that important to her. And then, I know I'm simply being used. If she won't say "or for worse," she fails the test to qualify for that security. For that means she is only in it for the better while it is better. And if there is no legal binding, and I was deceived and betrayed, there are no consequences for the betrayer. Which, if children are involved, means they too were betrayed, and there is no justice for them. That is unconscionable.
I blame that on corrupt courts, who get rich stirring dissent and tempting families to self-destruct.
Im 49 and never married in my life and I dotn even have kids eitehr and I dont have a boyfriend or dating anyone at the moment
re my posts about covid relationship and "hello darkness my old friend
It’s terribleTrust meI been there ten years!!! If I go back and look back Want to know exactly what idSAYIt’s more sad, no happy, more lonely than ever. Trapped it’s miserable
@bananasyellow I agree, it’s far more worst if you’re a man cause if you bail out you will lose it all and the woman can bail out whenever she feels like it
Why won't it happen?
@screaming_doorknob Because no girl ever wanted me, I don't see why it would change.
Brah, You got to learn to be more confident in yourself.I don't know what you look like but you can look like shit and if you're strutting that confidence and you got your life in order you'll find yourself a good woman.
@PupinTheTurd jfl I can't stop laughing at the message above.For crying out loud stop lying to people a d stop brainwashing them.No one gives a flying fuck about your confidence. 😂
@screaming_doorknob Go ahead ask any woman what she would rather have.1.) a confident man That has goals and is focusing on completing them. Aka He's not wasting away doing nothing but playing video games and watching porn.2.) A good looking guy that doesn't do shit with his life and doesn't have anything planned for his future.
Because for me, getting married really wouldn't be any different from being in a longterm committed relationship. Some people would need marriage maybe to further express their love, or solidify it. But at its core, it's meant to be a countermeasure to single motherhood or an unsupported child due to not having both parents in their lives. It's meant to keep the man in check and have him own up to his responsibilities. But I don't have that issue. I'm responsible when it comes to this stuff.