Ok think this mho answer here!!! EVERYTHING you said... YEEESSS... Thank you!!! Couldn't if said it better myself! 💜👍👍🙂
It's my version of flirting. ;)
🤣🤣 you got a lot of competition there 🤣
lol... if I ever for what ever whacko reason found myself on that type of show, I would purposely try set the record for quickest to get eliminated / kicked off :)
No rose for you 🤣
lol if that means I get booted immediately... F the rose thank you... lol :)
Well don't really F It, they have thorns..."Am I making you thorny baby"🤣🤣🤣
lol... well maybe as I am just about to take a bath with some rose petals :)
Wow you so photogenic you almost look like a totally different man in each one 😂😂😂 how sad is it tho that the bathtub looks more inviting right now.. My shoulder hurts today 😔
Yes my physique looks different based on the lighting :)Sorry to hear about the shoulder. Tub would be good - but maybe Double D Dude does massages too :)
You put more than a finger on it! You said it just right and couldn't agree more 💯💯
Lol 😂 😉
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😂😂😂 Funny way to put it but agree there
Even arranged marriages more often than not, involved the youn newlyweds too become acquainted, if they hadn't already grown up together in the same village. I'd be pretty apprehensive commiting body and soul too a complete stranger.
I would never send money to someone I never met in real life. And phone and video? You really think that's enough to really know someone? I personally don't feel that way. I need to know them in real life, I need that real interaction... Just videoing someone you can't really gauge how'd it'd actually be abridged living with someone.
The question is can long distance relationships be started or work... can someone meet another person and decide to go further with them later. Like someone that starts dating on zoom from chicago, someone that is from New York. I am not sure how far you could go but I think you might be able to feel out if it's worth a place trip to see each other or simply be friends on zoom. Of which the 1,000 dollars was merely an idea but a plane ticket makes a lot more sense. That way you can see them and prove their real and figure out if the chemistry still works in person
No the question was would you get engaged to someone without ever even meeting them IRL
I think meeting first is a must. You can get very close to marriage with meetings on zoom. But there needs to be meeting in person. Even if it's a week of vacation to see how you feel with them
I'm sorry I disagree, a week on vacation is not enough to know someone well enough to decide to get married, well not for me anyway 🤷🏼♀️
However... That said, it would probably be my only chance of ever finding someone, so I probably shouldn't be saying that... lol
I still need to be able to spend real physical time with that person, before I'll even date much less get engaged
I totally understand that. The only positive part of meeting someone online is the built up excitement till you meet irl.
Unless it turns out to be total disappointment 🤷🏼♀️
It surely can be that too. The only logic thing to say about this kind of behaviour is: Don't ever rush or force anything into what might turn become the next relationship because in 99.999% of the times it will blowback in a bad way in the long run. I am only telling this from my own perspective.
All good points! And people can't even stay faithful committed when they in a relationship where they are getting sex... They really gonna stay faithful to someone in another state or country... Yeah not buying it
Omg really 😂😂😂 Think you on wrong post lolol you putting strain on an old lady's eyes 😂😂Seriously tho, you would? Prenup only protects your pocket from taking a hit, not your heart
G@G tkoo ym psot dwon wehn I worte lkie tihs os I’m giong ot wrtie lkie tihs lla dya. I eevn lsot 7 pionts beacuse teh reomved ym qusetion.
Why did they remove it?
You know you could contact and try to have it reposted
Under their Mickey Mouse rules if you have grammer errors in a question it will be removed & if a question is removed you loose 7 points.
Sorry to hear that
My post has been restored!
Told you!! Glad to hear it! Does that mean you gonna type normal now 😂😂😂
RIGHT!!! Don't know if it's our age, we just both very smart, or just similar... But we generally think asking the same lines, cuz everything you just said about that dating, we a couple but it's online only, just baffles the shit out of me, but now to call it engaged like WTF🤷🏼♀️🤣🤣
I am sure it must be an age thing. Then again I was brought up by a strict Baptist mother who went to a Catholic boarding school.
Can you match that one? LMAO
My Mother was Lutheran, My father was Strict Catholic with Democrat politicians in his family... Your turn 🤣🤣🤣
Closer then we think eh.
😂😂 right lolol
I don't think that would be a good idea... These online only dating relationships rarely work out, but engaged or to actually marry, yeah sorry but bad idea in my opinion
Oh for sure. I learned the hard way. 2020 has been better
Does that mean you have a potential male partner 🤔🤔
Lmao no but i needed a break 🤣 I've had like 5 dudes this year. I eventually lost attraction to the first, but he's still holding on. As for the second, i lost attraction to him once i found out my old crush liked me too. Then for the third, we had similar goals but he made up some excuse that he wasn't over his ex. In reality, i think our goals started to clash. Then the fourth guy, he was gorgeous af but his voice started to annoy me. Plus he seemed like a compulsive liar cause stuff wasn't adding up after a while. Then the fifth guy wanted me to act like a girlfriend but didn't want to make me a girlfriend yet. Plus he was a mommas boy and then he started actin like caitlyn jenner and i started questioning his sexuality. The guy after that had past abuse accusations so i dodged him. And then the guy after that was super clingy before day 3 and it scared me away. So yea i just been takin a break this month 🤣
Yeah that's probably best
I can't help that i move on quickly 😂🙈 like it doesn't mean i wasn't into the guy before. Just means that he was a waste and i may as well move forward
Exactly!! Couldn't agree more
RIGHT! THANK YOU! couldn't agree more 💯
I agree 💯
Exactly!! That's how I see it anyways
I used to know one guy who video chatted with a woman clear across the country for a couple of hours every day. They decided to move in together, so he loaded up all his stuff and drove across the country and moved in with her. I guess they thought they had a "real relationship". It didn't last all that long. Yeah to me it is just fantasy until you get to know the person face to face.
Sorry, but maybe. that's for the best... If you only interacted on here, how do you even know they were who they said they were... I saw pink ANON user bragging hope group of em catfish people and joke about it in group chat...
Exactly I didn't really know. I just presumed it was.
That's my whole point tho why would you get engaged to someone when you don't really even know the person?
I was drunk in love
In love with a real person tho, or a fantasy? And love? Or infatuation?
Who knows 🤷♂️
Well in that case, Invite me to the wedding 🤣
As a guest or the Bride? lol
Oh wow ouch gee thanks friend 😔
Is that good or bad? lol
Thought we were friends or least "mate"🤣🤣
We are, just have to check in every now and then to make sure I've not misinterpreted an answer lol,
Exactly!! You get it
👍👍 me personally I can't fall in love that way, I need to spend real time
I mean i do spend time understanding the person online I have a good intuition knowing to select people that are quite possessing a unique personality who are quite truthful and direct
Omg exactly!! Right!! Agree 💯
Hope that works out for you 🙏🙏
Right! I agree it's just friggin crazy in my opinion
I agree and that's the only way I would but only cuz I don't run so good 😂
After much thought on the subject of shotgun wedding maybe it would be best to run in a xig zag motion or just duck if he is "assuming its a man at the trigger"shooting from the hip he most likely isn't trying to kill you yet
Right exactly. I don't even see how people date that way, but engaged? I don't get it 🤷🏼♀️
My bro-in-law cyber-dated for about 6 months from the midwest to S. CArolina. But, he took 3 or 4 week-long trips out there to visit her before they got engaged. I even thought THAT was somewhat soon, but, he's happy, especially since his first marriage was to a borderline, bi-polar freak that is now wrecking the life of her fourth victim, er, I mean, husband.
So are they married now then?
Yes. He moved down to S. Carolina and they got married down there. She sold off a huge house and downsized into a new house, in a new subdivision, with a new hubby.
Aww that's good, glad to hear it! But at least they actually met first... That's not always the case...
😂😂 but seriously yeah, me neither... People these days just baffle me 🤷🏼♀️
You would do an engagement just knowing someone by cam only? Not being judgmental, just don't personally understand 🤷🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
Nope not on cam, i said that before being engaged, it's okay of we got to know each other on cam than getting engaged in reality 😊
So you would date by cam?
Don't get muffins that way 😂😂😂
No way, dates are going to be real, i have to check if the forehead is real and also i have to taste the muffins, if everything goes well, i'll kidnapp her and run away ☻
Lolol you know kidnapping is illegal right 🤔😂😂😂
That's how I feel as well
EXACTLY! Thank you friend 👍💜🙂
@Brainsbeforebeauty You are welcome, I can't see these people like my Cousin corresponds with this guy who's in the UK and he even was in jail in Spain than when he was done doing time he's back in what I believe is Walsh UK yes long distance doesn't work too good for us?
No it really didn't on my opinion but I've never personally done that but the ones I know that do or the things I read on here yeah no
Or at least REALLY know them
even then you never really know someone until you live with them. I am talking about personal habits inside the home.
Well yeah I know...
How do you really get to know someone with no real in person interaction, hour do you know the connection will be there off screen and in real life?
Can we meet maybe have a cup of coffee , i am gonna say that somewhere in between
But how does that work when sometimes people are in different states or even countries
🤣🤣🤣 why, you eat cereal weird 🤔 lolololSeriously, I know what you're saying and I agree 💯
i don't, a friend of mine does. she puts the milk in first then adds a small amount of cereal, eats it, then more cereal until the milk is gone
She don't want the cereal getting soggy lololol
yes i understand the reasoning behind her actions. it's still weird
So would you not marry someone because of that?
haha, that's not a deal breaker at all.
👍👍Just don't squeeze the friggin toothpaste from the middlle🙄🤣🤣
oh my god. i hate that! and make sure the tp goes over the top
Okay but please put the toilet seat down 🙂😂😂😂
i pee sitting down, seat never goes up. but yeah i hear you
Wait you pee sitting down 🤔
yeah. no mess. my penis is small too
Wouldn't it still be more awkward to pee sitting down
not at all, it's easier. especially in the middle of the night
I wouldn't even date someone I can't physically interest with much less get engaged, but that's just me
I understand. I wad trying to be open minded
That is not true
More people will say it is than will say it isn't. It's 2020.
I personally agree
Shouldn't you meet in real before deciding you want sometime as a girlfriend?
Well I actually met someone once nice online multiple times and you get to know them truly more when meeting in real you're right. But sometimes I felt like its a soulmate and had a lot in common and we would match. (I could also be wrong).
But you're talking past tense? So it didn't work in the long run them?
I haven't met anyone in real yet therefore I say that
Well, I hope that works out for you
Not that can't happen in real life, but think it's more prevalent with ld only relationships, video sex verses real sex 🤷🏼♀️ people can't even stay faithful these days even getting real sex, much less not at all
Good luck with that
Thank you It is the 21ST century, year 2020 things change times have changed
Any time people settle for video relationships and video sex over the real deal is not a change for the better
i could not agree with you more!!!
And did that work for them?
For how long were they talking to each other? And were they live in same county while they were talking?
Oh, it didn't work for them?
@H3xaD3x in both cases they got engaged quick
@Gwenhwyfar Did you tell them they were stupid?
@Jamie05rhs the first one I did
Okay. And what about the second one?
@Jamie05rhs happened before I knew her
I think so
That would be the best way in my opinion
Why would you want an arranged marriage!
That was a question mark or supposed to be?
Why you sorry? I was asking why you would want AV arranged marriage and then explaining my exclamation point typo lol
Yayyy I was right Mind you I am a man haha
I won't hold that against you 😂😂😂
Just once? To me personally takes more than one real meet for me to even get in a relationship with someone much less engaged
Well, I have met my best friend once. And we are super close. So while I can say that meeting multiple times is what I would aim for, I know that meeting only once is at least possible
Being internet friends and living together as man and wife are not the same tho.. My daughter moved in with two friends she knew for years and went to school with for years, but living together was totally different and they're not so much friends now
Yeah, that's a good point. And that's probably why spending a lot of time with each other before hand is so helpful
I just personally don't feel that level of knowing someone can come strictly from cam Relationship only 🤷🏼♀️
Yeah, I hear you. And I don't know if it's truly possible, especially in this day and age when people are so selective about what they want in life. But I do think with the right people and the right conditions it is possible. Tough, but possible
Okay... I just hear and see so much that shows more of those relationships don't Last then those that do
Yeah, I can't argue with you there. And I know that if I got to choose, for me personally I would want to be together physically for months before engagement
Not me lolol I would never, but others do and I don't get it 🤷🏼♀️
Nice to know you're my fan 😂😂
I'd say so
Okay lol 🙂
We agree on this one 💯
What will? You're going to get engaged?
Not by internet
What does Muslim got to do with it.. Send lots of people are doing that these days, these online only relationships where they say they a couple, bite they getting engaged without actually even meeting ever in person... I don't get it 🤷🏼♀️
Right! I know I wouldn't... I won't even do online dating much less get engaged
Yeah see, me I couldn't get engaged to someone where it was just talking and no real in person connection
Exactly! Like that 90 day fiance show.. what a joke!
Haven't seen it
You and me both, How can you promise yourself to someone you don't even know or know if the connection is real?
Exactly, they could seem perfect online because it leaves them with many opportunities to lie about certain things
But then they could be completely different in person, not something I would want to risk
Exactly. I agree with you.
@COMMODOREII @Brainsbeforebeauty yep!!