Say if months or years into dating someone you started talking about kids and marriage and you found out they didn't want kids, marriage or either would it be a deal breaker?
- Yes kids and marriage are bigVote A
- No its not a big dealVote B
- Yes I at least want kidsVote C
- Other (please explain)Vote D
Most Helpful Girl
Not to me, because I don't want kids, either. But if the guy I'm seeing did and felt that it was a dealbreaker, I'd understand.
It sounds like your boyfriend is just jaded from seeing his brother's irresponsibility with marriage and pregnancy... It's not like he is going to follow in his brother's footsteps if he's smarter than that. Maybe he'll change his mind as you two grow closer.1