Why when a man be with a woman for 9 years, but will break up with her and gets with another woman and gets married within a year?

[Alyssa11]

Because your quote is right.

Never let a man sting you for years and years without real commitment. This whole 'marriage is just a paper' concept is bullshit. A REAL man who's down for you would want you to carry his surname, to share his assets, to claim you in front of the world, to legally be bound to you.

[slatyb]

Happens all the time. A guy will get involved with a woman, then he realizes she isn’t what he wants for a life partner. But he’s doesn’t want to be alone and doesn’t want the drama of breaking up so he just stays with her while looking for the woman he really wants. Women who want to be married should set a time limit for a proposal. One year after meeting seems about right.

[boggboss]

Because he never wanted to marry the first girl was comftble with her or the second girl wanted marriage and he was happy to give that to her

[pleasestopthis]

Well exactly how he said. He thinks she doesn't have the qualities he wants in a wife or lifelong partner but still remains with her as he probably still cares for her and doesn't want to be single. Then he moves on as "The One" comes into the picture.

[JaneDoe377]

Who knows. I was with a guy for 11 years, we were engaged at one point but im so happy we never went through with it.

[_Just_A_girl_]

I like the photo it's very true.

[Dave31989]

did he ever propose to the first one?