Ladies is it mportant that you get married?

Question

Reason I ask is many young ladies under 25 believe marriage is just a paper and not important any more as once was in 1950s for example. Where woman depended on male counterpart heavily. Today they say thanks to modernized science and laws woman have no need. Is this true? Because I thought we got married as a moral structure of a family unit. To show importance of relationship between two families getting to know one another. Because as we know once you are in relationship with someone and children come into play. Weather You're married or not. End oft the day you are linked by blood forever. So you might as well get married and get the blessing. No?

Ladies is it mportant that you get married?

Agree marriage is universal code and ethic we need to teach

No marriage isn't what it's made out to be

Select age and gender to cast your vote:

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Answer 1

menina | 123 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

Master

I know where you're coming from.
I'm not under 25 but I do think that marriage is just a piece of paper. I believe that if you two people love each other and want and can be together, they don't need to sign a paper or wear a ring to say that they're a couple. To me is just a waste of money.
Marriage is still important in countries, cultures or religions where women don't have rights and depend on men. Otherwise it's not necessary.
That being said, I don't judge women who want to get married or are already married, I just think it's not as significant as it used to be.

DaMack999

1 mo
Marriage Isn't just about men v. s women. Its a global value any where you go. Marriage exists. Yet young people who just choose to have sex out of pleasure isn't normally accepted everywhere on earth. So save me the woman need money crap. You don't money to get a woman. And you don't need a man to be happy. Sex isn't happiness. It's moral humanity machine. It's there to reproduce. If you don't want to do that. It's your choice. No can force you. But marriage is a legal responsibility, maturity. I guess you're still a child.
DaMack999

1 mo
It's a mistake
menina

1 mo
What is a mistake?

Answer 2

DaMack999

Marriage Isn't just about men v. s women. Its a global value any where you go. Marriage exists. Yet young people who just choose to have sex out of pleasure isn't normally accepted everywhere on earth. So save me the woman need money crap. You don't money to get a woman. And you don't need a man to be happy. Sex isn't happiness. It's moral humanity machine. It's there to reproduce. If you don't want to do that. It's your choice. No can force you. But marriage is a legal responsibility, maturity. I guess you're still a child.

Answer 3

DaMack999

It's a mistake

Answer 4

menina

What is a mistake?

Answer 5

EllieEmma99

Xper 4

It all depends and personally I'm 23 and I want to get married, i made this clear to my partner and we discussed that it is what we want out the future... that's right for me but not everyone... my older sister and her partner have a house and a happy family with no marriage as she doesn't believe in it and it is what works for them

Answer 6

Anonymous

Marriage is not at all what it used to be. The concept of marriage has essentially been completely destroyed. It is still a very beneficial arrangement to women, and especially to children, but there is very little benefit left in marriage for men, and the risks to men today far outweigh the benefits. Marriage will soon be a thing of the past.

Answer 7

Unit1 | 273 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

Master

Of course for them it is (and not for us)! They want the stability and commitment (that translates to money, so if the marriage fails, the one with the penis will be severely punished). Love is not real. We fall for their beauty, caring treatment and seductions.

Answer 8

mindNsoul

Explorer

Marriage is not for everyone. Do what makes you happy and find someone who share these values with you.

DaMack999

1 mo
Why not?
mindNsoul

1 mo
It just is. We have different values and different desires. I believe in marriage but only with the right person that is.
DaMack999

1 mo
So how will you get the guarantee stamp he will be mr. Right. By going to psychic. Lol
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mindNsoul

1 mo
Well I don't believe in nonsense. but how to find Mr. Right is part luck and part ensuring that I am Mrs. Right in the first place. It is by focusing on my self development and emotional growth. It is my job to be a good human being that's mature emotionally and intellectually. So I attract good men with depth and character. And be able to see through fuck boys and players. No witch craft or astrology needed for that.

And again I don't expect people to believe in what I believe in. I don't bother about that. I need to only care and invest time on men who share my values and beliefs. That was my answer to you from the beginning. Don't waste your time on girls who don't believe in loyalty and family values or marriage. That's pointless and will bring you nothing but heartache.
DaMack999

1 mo
Am saying you're answer is logical and worth note taking for all those guys looking for a woman lol. But marriage license doesn't have requirements. Aside from 50 dollar processing fee. So end of the day any youth can get married. So can any fool have a child. Do it doesn't make you a mom or a father by having kids. Calling yourselves common law. I feel we lost touch within value and family connection and love it brings. We just made it out to be 90210 show. No longer seen as important. To your point. Life is luck and we all have hoped to find a good partner. But everything in life like it is hard. Takes hard work to make relationship work. It also takes even greater. Army to raise a family. Hope you ready for Mountain Everest when you say " I do" to the usher. When he asks do you take this man to be your man, husband, and for sickness, for poverty and richness, to be your husband.
mindNsoul

1 mo
Your words and beliefs are beautiful. You are very articulate and I can only hope that you find your lady soon 🌹💗
DaMack999

26 d
Happiness is over rated. No one can guarantee you will be happy with anyone if you're not happy with yourself. Period.
mindNsoul

26 d
That's absolutely true. Are you alright?

Answer 9

DaMack999

Why not?

Answer 10

mindNsoul

It just is. We have different values and different desires. I believe in marriage but only with the right person that is.

Answer 11

DaMack999

So how will you get the guarantee stamp he will be mr. Right. By going to psychic. Lol

Answer 12

mindNsoul

Well I don't believe in nonsense. but how to find Mr. Right is part luck and part ensuring that I am Mrs. Right in the first place. It is by focusing on my self development and emotional growth. It is my job to be a good human being that's mature emotionally and intellectually. So I attract good men with depth and character. And be able to see through fuck boys and players. No witch craft or astrology needed for that.

And again I don't expect people to believe in what I believe in. I don't bother about that. I need to only care and invest time on men who share my values and beliefs. That was my answer to you from the beginning. Don't waste your time on girls who don't believe in loyalty and family values or marriage. That's pointless and will bring you nothing but heartache.

Answer 13

DaMack999

Am saying you're answer is logical and worth note taking for all those guys looking for a woman lol. But marriage license doesn't have requirements. Aside from 50 dollar processing fee. So end of the day any youth can get married. So can any fool have a child. Do it doesn't make you a mom or a father by having kids. Calling yourselves common law. I feel we lost touch within value and family connection and love it brings. We just made it out to be 90210 show. No longer seen as important. To your point. Life is luck and we all have hoped to find a good partner. But everything in life like it is hard. Takes hard work to make relationship work. It also takes even greater. Army to raise a family. Hope you ready for Mountain Everest when you say " I do" to the usher. When he asks do you take this man to be your man, husband, and for sickness, for poverty and richness, to be your husband.

Answer 14

mindNsoul

Your words and beliefs are beautiful. You are very articulate and I can only hope that you find your lady soon 🌹💗

Answer 15

DaMack999

Happiness is over rated. No one can guarantee you will be happy with anyone if you're not happy with yourself. Period.

Answer 16

mindNsoul

That's absolutely true. Are you alright?

Answer 17

KatherineJ | 379 opinions shared on Marriage & Weddings topic.

Guru

It was important for me because I wanted to spend the rest of my life with my husband.

DaMack999

26 d
Is he on the same boat though? That's important. If he is. Congrats.
KatherineJ

26 d
@damack999 well, I certainly HOPE he is, since he is stuck with me “until death us do part”.

Answer 18

DaMack999

Is he on the same boat though? That's important. If he is. Congrats.

Answer 19

KatherineJ

@damack999 well, I certainly HOPE he is, since he is stuck with me “until death us do part”.

Answer 20

Anonymous

Not as much as it used to be

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