Don't take this the wrong way, I am not trying to be rude or anything it is not just a piece of paper a marriage certificate means a lot it is an important document in the eyes of the law. If the woman or guy decide to get a divorce there is things the judge has to decide and it means a lot of trips to the courtroom. Let me tell you a divorce is not cheap you have to pay lawyers sale your home if they're is children there is child support depending who gets custody of the kids oh and Alimony for the ex husband or ex wife lets see properties. That certification of Marriage can cost huge bucks to break it off.
Oh amd forgot to tell you a divorce also means you have to pay for a lawyer and lawyers are not cheap so I would not called it a piece a paper it is a document.
Well yeah, a piece of paper with bunch of complications
I take marriage seriously considering I am not going to just get married to have a piece of paper , I ‘d get married to show my faith in God and Love for my spouse , that I am committed to her and want to spend the rest of my life with her , as my partner, my best friend and lover. And I agree marriage doesn’t save your relationship. Just like having a child with someone doesn’t save your relationship so I wouldn’t have them if I didn’t want to spend the rest of my life with them. Why it’s best to be in a long term relationship with someone before even thinking of getting married. People change and what they choose to do is something they have to live with , if they choose to break that bond then it is what it is , we can’t force someone to love us or stay with us all we can do is guide them and love them the same way we want to be loved. Divorce is a horrible thing so if they choose to walk away we can try to guide them to not leave but we can’t force them. Love only grows when we choose to remove selfishness and make each other a priority and sacrifice for each other , if you can’t do that then my thing is don’t be in a relationship period
Finchie40 You are absolutely right. I agree with you.
Just the way I am , I don’t see the point in any other way ,
LOL that would be some crazy shit , but I am sure it happens , sorry you can’t get married cuz they are already married
Of course not. I'm not interested in men who are dating many women at the same time or having a friends with benefits either.
I agree , And same here I am not interested in girls that date a bunch of men at the same time but people do it and it’s disrespectful and misleading , if you like someone a lot you should instantly feel some type of chemistry for you to even want to go on a date with them you shouldn’t need to date others to figure that out , that right there shows you that person is selfish and only really cares about themselves. I hate selfish people with a passion
Kudos! Good day, sir.
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I agree , if you married someone just for their looks then you ar in for a rude awakening and wastingYour time , you shouldMarry your partner Cuz you love them no matter what , they are your best friend , your lover , when you both remove selfishness for each other that’s what matters
Yes cheating is where I draw the line , the relationship is doomed if that occurs in my opinion