What Would A Man/Woman Need To Have For You To Finally Want To Marry Him/Her?

[jennifer_bloom]

A car and a place to live with at least 2-3 bedrooms and good cleaning etiquette and not emotionally abusive and is happy with his life and reasonable attractive to me - I have places to live too but I want a guy that can afford it

[DizzyDesii]

We need common goals (both wanting marriage/kids same time).
We need to have similar interests/hobbies including sexually.
We need to both have a job and be close in age (less than 5 years).
We need to both be respectful of eachother and love and be in love with eachother.
We need to be physically and mentall attracted to eachother and be great in terms of communication

[Jjpayne]

So for me, there is desire and interest for me apart from my money. She wants to support me, respect me, and share her life with me. That's the simple nutshell answer. But even further, at least believes in a higher power to some extent, loves to help people are work with people has patience for people and loves pop culture in some way. Those are probably up there for me.

[Anonymous]

I would not get married no matter how much I cared for a woman. Marriage today is a very unwise choice for men because it no longer benefits them like it used to and it is much more risky for men now. I might stay in a relationship with a woman if I love her and feel we are compatible, but I would never marry her. Marriage is no longer worth the price for men.

[zeitgeist057]

In no particular order (but maybe, since it will be first things that come to mind as they come):

1. Attractive to me physically, mentally and mutually attracted to me. Good chemistry
2. Good sexual chemistry in bed.
3. I will tolerate a wide variety of personalities, so I'm not super particular, but she cannot be abusive emotionally or mean.
4. Not a gold digger - at least somewhat independent financially, and/or smart with money, not materialistic.
5. Loves nature and animals. Doesn't have to be so crazy about them, but can't be one of those haters that can't get dirty or is creeped out by animals.

Those are my "must"s. some of my preferences are a little more bubbly, a little more petite, clever/intelligent, playful, adventurous, cuddly, and clean (good hygiene and also at least a little tidy).

[Anonymous]

He need to have a job ( economical stable)

He needs to like kids (because i want kids)

He need to have meet my family and me his and maybe getting along

He needs to be able to communicate with me more like a love4 but also as a bestfriend and be goofy/weird together.

He needs to be able to express his emotions more with me and know that i will always be there for him.

[Unit1]

I can be a husband to her and she can be a wife to me.
WITHOUT the marriage part! I won't "get married". It's extremely monetized and i don't need anyone's approval to certify, that we are in love.

[Massageman]

(Thinking way back now). Be on their own. Paying for own apartment and saving for a home. Decent vehicle and some savings. A desire to have a family. Being honest, and having a plan for the future.

[Anonymous]

No crushing debt
Non violent
doesn't argue
doesn't belittle me
doesn't job hop
doesn't cheat
doesn't drink / smoke
doesn't get annoyed with me

[chrispy_008]

They would have to be kind caring and supportive about me and mental health issues mainly. Do that and I will marry them

[Dave31989]

wanting to have my kids of course

that's the ultimate reason to marry, offspring

[Account]

The answer is no in any possible scenario.