Guys, are you willing to be a househusband?

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I have a physical disability, due to which I am unable to perform many household chores. But I am very good at studying and I am certain that I will get a good job.

My mother has suggested that if I get a job, she will explain my condition to the guy and the guy's family (Yes, arranged marriage).

She will say: Our daughter is unable to perform many household chores due to her physical disability. But she has a job, so please don't mind if she's unable to do the chores, she will contribute financially.

So, I wanted to know, are guys willing to be the househusband?

Yes, I am willing to be a househusband.

Maybe, I may consider it.

No, I will not be a househusband!

I will not marry a girl like you.

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Answer 1

DannyUk2017

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I don't understand one thing... Why your parents will put your "bio" as : "she cannot do house chores but she would pay"? Wtf? I mean when you get a person (even for aranged marriage) maybe you two might fall in love for real... and then what? Stil paying him to do the chores? I mean when a man gets a woman its said "for better or for worse", so that frase to me sounds like the "whole life/doing/things coming/up and downs/shopping/cleaning/watching movies/cuddling" and all other things in life SHOULD BE DONE IN TWO! If one does less than the other that shouldn't be a problem!
One thing sounds bad though! Sounds like your parents want to ger rid of you (no offence), but i hope they won't put that as an advert, as it will sound bad, very bad... and have you tried dating sites? You stand a better chance there to find your half (rather than an aranged marriage)... 😉🌹🌹🌹

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In my country, guys aren't usually taught household chores, so in such a family, a housewife does all the household chores without any help from the men in the house.

No, they don't wish to get rid of me, they have taken care of me well, they have loved me a lot, and I can never repay what they have done for me. 👌

Why do you think that arranged marriages happen with ads? 😂😂😂

No, the guy's family will come at my home to meet and we will also visit the guy's home.

Dating sites? No, thank you... I have never even had a male friend before. 😂😂😂

Besides, if I get a boyfriend, my parents will not let me study further.
DannyUk2017

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Wtf? So just STRAIGHT HUSBAND? 🙈... My god, never heard of that one before... and plus you should live in Europe here guys Do their part!
Asker

1 y
Well, in my country, opposite gender friendships are not approved.

Plus, I am too shy to talk to a guy. 😂😂😂

Europe? Well... I wouldn't move there, I will not be able to adjust there. I don't like cold weather... I don't like alcohol, I am a vegetarian...
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DannyUk2017

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No need for alcohol lol, and plus is not that cold as you think, but hey it is what it is, i hope you will find a real man, but you know that no matter who you will have with you, is not going to be easy... like will be, No Love, No attraction, No Chemistry, nothing and plus when the urge kicks in, you have to satisfy him, but he don't do anything to "help you", which i already see it as a "sad love story", and plus that ure not alowed to have boyfriend's, now that's even more sad as you will "dive in the unknown"...
Asker

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I can completely understand what you mean!
My mother says that 'No normal guy would be willing to marry a disabled girl, a disabled person is always set up (arranged marriage) with another disabled person.'

She said that she was willing to set me up with a disabled person like me.

I appreciate your concern for me, thank you very much.

I hope that I somehow will be able to find a good person like you said and it won't be a sad love story...

I am already 22 and in 4 or 5 years, I will be married off to a man.

Answer 2

Asker

In my country, guys aren't usually taught household chores, so in such a family, a housewife does all the household chores without any help from the men in the house.

No, they don't wish to get rid of me, they have taken care of me well, they have loved me a lot, and I can never repay what they have done for me. 👌

Why do you think that arranged marriages happen with ads? 😂😂😂

No, the guy's family will come at my home to meet and we will also visit the guy's home.

Dating sites? No, thank you... I have never even had a male friend before. 😂😂😂

Besides, if I get a boyfriend, my parents will not let me study further.

Answer 3

DannyUk2017

Wtf? So just STRAIGHT HUSBAND? 🙈... My god, never heard of that one before... and plus you should live in Europe here guys Do their part!

Answer 4

Asker

Well, in my country, opposite gender friendships are not approved.

Plus, I am too shy to talk to a guy. 😂😂😂

Europe? Well... I wouldn't move there, I will not be able to adjust there. I don't like cold weather... I don't like alcohol, I am a vegetarian...

Answer 5

DannyUk2017

No need for alcohol lol, and plus is not that cold as you think, but hey it is what it is, i hope you will find a real man, but you know that no matter who you will have with you, is not going to be easy... like will be, No Love, No attraction, No Chemistry, nothing and plus when the urge kicks in, you have to satisfy him, but he don't do anything to "help you", which i already see it as a "sad love story", and plus that ure not alowed to have boyfriend's, now that's even more sad as you will "dive in the unknown"...

Answer 6

Asker

I can completely understand what you mean!
My mother says that 'No normal guy would be willing to marry a disabled girl, a disabled person is always set up (arranged marriage) with another disabled person.'

She said that she was willing to set me up with a disabled person like me.

I appreciate your concern for me, thank you very much.

I hope that I somehow will be able to find a good person like you said and it won't be a sad love story...

I am already 22 and in 4 or 5 years, I will be married off to a man.

Answer 7

TheSimonymous

Xper 6

Under those circumstances I wouldn't even mind to do the household chores. As long as she would respect me for that and not treat me like a slave why not?

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