35 is just on the verge of being too late to get married and think about kids for him?
I think 50 that is too late for men to have kids.
But imagine about the kids and his age difference and stages of life.He'd be around 75 years , if alive, when his kids would be around 25 and start earning/be totally independent... maybe his life ends much before that then the kids would be left all by themselves without a father...
I see. Well, 50, that is an unusual case. It is possible anyways. I know some people who are a father when he's that old. As you mentioned about the age gap, it's fine. Maybe because my dad passed early (when I was 20), and I didn't graduate that time. The dad can plan ahead and save some money for the child's education. So I think the dependency on the dad wouldn't be very long. A 25 years old person is grown enough to take care of him/herself.
Are you married person?
No. I should by now, right?
Umhmm ideally yes.Don't you think it's bit too late especially if you want to have kids?
I wish I could in my next life. Well, I have a niece, so it's the same.
You've given up all hopes of getting married this time?
Hahaha. Well, I have never been asked to be a girlfriend (serious relationship) for 36 years. There are only men who look for a minor wife or to hook up for free. I am not sure I can find a good man who wants to marry me when I'm this old. I'm open to online dating, and still hopeful anyways.
Ever been in a long term relationship that even lead to sexual relationship?As of now do you live all alone totally all by yourself?
No man actually asks me out for a date, and I'm not a fan of casual lifestyle. So I've never been in a serious relationship that leads to anywhere. I have been single for more than 15 years. I tried seeing some people, but then I found out the men I talked to were not single. That's why.
Damn... are you serious? A man's sperm could impregnate a woman even if he quite old male... given that he has muscles strong enough to give him an erection and be able to deliver the sperm?
Yes, I am serious, I have nothing to gain with lying about this
I thought you werre exaggerating about a male being able to impregnate a woman even if he is too old.
No exaggeration, cuz a man is not "too old" to impregnate someone, given that he is still able to get an erection and gets stimulation to ejaculate. But hey, viagra and a hot woman and bam!
A man could have problems with getting and holding the erection because of weak muscles but his semen still has enough " power" to impregnate?What about women in general? Till what age can a woman get pregnant and reproduce?
An erection is not muscle, it is swelling tissue. It is regulated by blood flowing into the penis and that is how you get an erection.Also the quality of semen is not directly linked to the erection, it is determined by a healthy lifestyle and proper care of your balls.Woman can get pregnant until they hit menopause wich is around 50 years old. But there was a lady who got pregnant at 70 or something trough a medical procedure, so nothing is impossible.All that I told you is basic biology and is on the 1st page of google when you search fertility and age.
The sperm quality of a man drops after 35. Not many men can impregnate a woman after a certain age. That's the current scientific evidence.
The quality might drop, yes. Not significantly but men after 40 will have a bit less "good swimmers".But a man can still father a child at any given age. Just have to try more times or maybe get a doctor involved.
extendfertility.com/male-fertility-decline/Maybe this helps the asker
Oldest woman I've heard of was 66, but she was taking hormones to get and stay pregnant. Friend's sister had twins at 52. Totally healthy girls. They're 12 now. I wouldn't push the age thing excessively. 30s and 40s are latest times to have children. You want to be around for them and be healthy. You might want to be around for grandkids too.
What do you mean? He should still be single and enjoy his single life rather than trying to get into marriage and kids?
It's not about love. It's about him getting a family and kids at this age
He said marriage, he didn’t say get kids. You can be married and not have kids
He would obviously want kids once he's married
See all the options, kids are clearly mentioned
I see it but I feel he shouldn’t limit himself to a certain way of thinking is all
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But what about the kids... would he be able to have kids at this age especially if he chooses a woman who is around his age?
Female fertility drops precipitously at 35. Remember, she is born with all the eggs she’s going to have. And they get... stale. Chance of birth defects, miscarriages, etc starts increasing from there.But male fertility is more constant. His sperm are not as good, but still quite good.Look for someone who is in late 20s. That’ll be the perfect number for you.
But wouldn't that be a huge age difference then?
28 vs 35? You think that’s “huge”? No of course it’s not.
Yeah... She's 7 years younger... H would b so much older compared to her. She would hav different mindset and needs..
Nah. No big deal. They’re both adults. It’ll be fine.
You're wrong. Though birth defects and fertility rise and fall in concert, there is no GIANT female fertility drop and birth defect rate until many years later. AND there are tests to detect most of them so you can have the choice to not have the child. I was pregnant and delivered at 39. Never had a problem getting pregnant, during pregnancy or at birth. Son was fine. He's goofy as hell 25 years later, but I had nothing to do with that!
@Screenwriter Of course it's possible and happens for some, but pretty much all doctors give this advice and information about the 35 drop-off."With advances in IVF and celebrities having babies into their 40s, you could be forgiven for thinking that age is no longer a barrier to starting a family.But the reality is that getting pregnant and having a healthy baby does become more difficult as women get older.By the age of 36, the chance of a woman conceiving each month is decreased by almost half from the time that she was her most fertile in her early 20s. This downward trend continues and by the age of 45 the average chance of getting pregnant each month is just 1%."www.genea.com.au/.../age-and-fertilityen.wikipedia.org/wiki/Age_and_female_fertility
Just if a male can get erection does it mean he'd be able to impregnate a fertile female? Doesn't his quality of sperm matter? which obviously would deteriorate with age as does a woman's chances.Also as he ages he'd loose appeal and charm , can get bald head , greyish facial hair due to which a fertile female wouldn't be interested in his ability to get erection!!
Quality of sperm? I see old men impregnating women as long as they can get it up. Again plenty of women like older men... and besides people do find people their own age attractive. As men get old women do too n their looks decreases too
What's the fertile age limit for a woman, in general?
You seriously feel as long as a male could get it erect he'd be able to easily impregnate a woman?
Well he obviously gotta know how to fuck lolJoke aside, like you are making problem where there is none. Sure lets say sperm quality lowers but that isn t impossible like its w women n their biologival clock. You always have q chance unless u r not fertile in which case that issue would exsist no matter your age
How " old" do you think a man could be and still impregnate?
As long as he liveEven if his chances are lower there ia still a chance
🙈🤨😳😳😳😳😲🤪🙄🙄🙄 seriously? As long as he lives? 🤭😏🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔A 82 years old male can?
Yes, you can google, old men can still get a woman pregnant but sure chances are lower
Are you already married with kids?
No I am not
one of my things I wish I was by the way
Oh. Why so?All alone?
I thought I found the one... something happened... and just by default seeing my dad having me at 42... i wish I had kids at 25-30 so your more able body
Sp you don't want marriage and kids because you feel you are old to have kids?
no no I just haven't met the right person
A man has lots to loose when he age...✓ Hair on head✓ Greying facial hair and chest hair✓ Loss of sexual desireAlso because of the above mentioned things he won't be looking nice... women don't have these issues hence they look fine and better than aged men.
Really, I thought older dude still looks a snack. Look at Brad pitt and I can tell you many men in their 40s and 50s in Bollywood who still look like a snack. Well, men loss of sexual desire graph is higher then that of women.www.vaestoliitto.fiMYSTERIES OF SEXUAL DESIRE Sexual desire and passion
The men of Bollywood or Hollywood who are in late forties or fifties actually have dyed their facial hair , head hair and sometimes they even get head hair implants... wax their chests etc so they don't really look bad or old as a man but an average real life man isn't going to wax his greying chest hair , dye his facial stubble/hair and head hair or get hair implementation...Do you still think an average real life aging man who has natural grey in his chest and facial hair , thinning/balding head hair etc would still look better than an ageing woman who doesn't have all these aesthetic issues as she ages?
By what age is a woman safely able to get pregnant without much worries?
Of course you've got to maintain yourself. No one is getting away with that. Grey stubble also look good. My father is in his 50s. He is fit and still look handsome. He is not hairy so he didn't have any problem with that. I mean our body starts loosen up. We get wrinkles and also sagging happens. Women is able to conceive her early 30s which is the maximum. Other than that no.
She is safely able to conceive and reproduce by early thirties? But many women in mid thirties or even mid forties have their second or third child... what about them?How should a man maintain his loss of head hair as he ages? And you expect/prefer a man to dye his chest and facial hair as it starts to turn grey... as he would be dying his head hair?And what's the maximum age a man could safely become a father?
Again, incorrect. After 45 sperm counts drop and more defective sperm are produced. If you're talking about perfect fertility, well you're talking about 19. But you're talking about a WAAAYYYY imperfect age for fatherhood. It's all a balance. Men who have always BEEN interested in sex might not be the choo-choo trains they were at 25, but is speed the goal? A teaspoon of sperm has how many millions of swimmers? You only need ONE! Most men can impregnate a woman on their own without VIAGRA through their 70s if they remain HEALTHY and active. If you stop having sex, you may stop FOREVER. IF you keep active and take care of yourself, you'll look impossibly wonderful until you drop. The problem is few people DO this.
@Screenwriter if a man practices celibacy for long time and doesn't masturbate or have sex for long time then his healthy semen would deteriorate?
But it's late to have kids and raise them
At 35? Who says so? Unless you're chronically ill and severely handicapped, 35 is fine. Neither too young nor too old. 60 is threading the needle. 70 is rolling dice. You'll be dead before your kids are in college, most likely. AND the biggest consideration isn't if you're dead: It's are you willing to spend your retirement on educating and supporting your kids. If you're affluent, this doesn't matter. If you're not, you've got to do some serious financial wizardry to take care of you in your OLD AGE and your kids in their youth and 20s. Despite them being young adults, parents ALWAYS have to help their post adolescent children: downpayments for houses, grad school, new babies. You need to be prepared to be generous with your children until you're taking the Big Sleep!
At what age did you get married and had first child?
Got married at 27. Had my first and only child at 39.
How old was hubby then?
He was 33
You mean to say you're still single unmarried and Virgin woman at this age?
Your friend was able to get pregnant normally and easily?
No I am long past being a virgin but I am single.. As for my friend it took her at least 10 years of trying to get pregnant. There was fertility problems with one or both of them. They never said which & I never asked.
So you live single all alone or live with close family/relatives?
I live alone in my own house.
Why did you choose to be all single? You currently don't even date or be in romantic/sexual relationship?
I never choose it just happened. As for now with this covid virus I'm not going out much.
Sorry I thought you were a female oops, you have nothing to worry about then 🤣
But a 35 years old male would obviously look for a woman who is at least around 32+ or so in age. Isn't that a bit of too late for her , if 35 isn't too late for him anyway?
She can still get pregnant if she wanted too don't worry
I started trying at 39. Was told, from literature, it'd take me a year to get pregnant. I was all excited about the journey! The journey took two months. WHAT A DISAPPOINTMENT... Lies, lies lies... ANd he was healthy, too. My son I mean. He's crazy NOW. But he started off wonderful. Nah. He's 25. Still in the crazy years. We'll see.
How old should he get a girl at this age?
You prefer to get married after thirites?
No, before then.
How old is his wife?
I dont know, she's younger. Probably 30-32
30 for men and 28 for women are AVERAGE ages in US. I didn't look up stats elsewhere. Maybe it's younger where you live, so you feel you're too old. Don't swallow that codswallow. It's bull. Healthy, got some money, good partner, good job. MOST important factors.
How old was mom?
But would he be able to get an available woman at this age and even have kids at this age?
i am sure that he could
yes of course, especially if he looks to Asia, Philippines especially,,,
You still single and unmarried?
I have two kids
Umhmm cool !How long have you been married?
Not married just not wanting a relationship
by 35? Yeah I think that is right
My dad got my mom pregnant at 35 and i turned out completely healthy💁i think he will be fine.
@Paolaa988 how old was your mom then?
That's bullshit: sperm (if you live a healthy life) doesn't lose it's fertile quality.A man could impregnate a woman untill the day he dies. Maybe not physically (old age etc.) but the sperm doesn't "dry up"