Would you allow someone to wear sneakers in your wedding? What about girls in suits?

[Jjpayne]

It all depends on the theme and the type of shoe or dress suit but I think they can work

[Anpu23]

There's weddings and there's weddings if you get that. My last wedding was just me my wife, our three kids and a friend who also happens to be a priest. A completely informal affair with no fanfare or anything.

My first wedding, on the other hand, to the same woman was a BIG DEAL. We rented a hall, a bar for the reception, the dress was designed by a big name local designer (also my aunt) it was cratered by my parrents company. We had guests who flew in from out of the country. The latest one was jeans and t-shirt. No problem, the other pantsuit would probably have been okay, but not sneakers.

[VanityFair748]

I hate weddings, but if I had a wedding, I'd have it somewhere in nature, so everyone would be welcome to wear anything they wanted, but if wedding is held in a restaurant or some fabulous place, I think wearing sneakers is kinda showing that you don't even care about the wedding ceremony, so you're showing up in a casual. Also you can go all dressed up and then change after an hour or two when photograph leaves or smth.

[MrsJaximus-Lion]

to be honest i have been to so many weddings and i wished i could wear sneakers but that will never happen :( i can't be wearing a nice long dress with sneakers because first it won't look good and second it will make people judge you

[OlderAndWiser]

This is simply MY attitude and opinion and I know others will disagree, but a wedding ceremony should be solemn and formal. After the wedding and before the reception, the bridesmaids could change into pantsuits.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I doubt I'm ever getting married again, so N/A but the pantsuits look pretty cool 😎

[Jake1415]

I'd mix it up... I would probably allow someone to wear sneakers only if they 1) wear a dress that reaches the floor ( like you) or 2) I may allow that person the dress down at little bit depending on our relationship. But I will NOT allow them to wear pantsuit or dress that doesn't go to the floor with sneakers but the mix matching of it would bother the piss out of me! 😉😂 I also probably wouldn't want ALL of the girls wearing pantsuits but if they are the type of person to not like wearing dresses and I k ow how much they don't like them, then ill be willing to consider letting them wear a pantsuit.

[MysticDevice]

I'd allow sneakers. Here's the thing though. If I ever get hitched, and that's a pretty big "if", it is not gonna be traditional. I'm not putting on a tuxedo, there will be no pastor rambling on about Jeezus, and there won't be white flowers everywhere lol. There will be mead, meat, ale horns, and roaring fires.

[DJB72]

I grew up at a time when it wasn't a crime to have an opinion. For a wedding I would prefer anyone over about 12 be wearing what I grew up calling "smart" shoes. And formal wear would mean ladies in dresses or skirts and smart tops.

[AdithyaR]

I've never really thought of marriage but if I do, I won't be put any dressing codes. Everyone can wear whatever they want. I rarely put any thought into fashion. So I'll just let everyone wear whatever they want.

[ariadneR]

Yes heels kill me. Ill prob have them for the ceremony, he'll, maybe ill just wear flats.
My cousin when he got married in 2016, at the reception they had a box of slides and flip-flops for everyone to wear

[midnightmoon05]

One of my best friend’s husband came with flip flops and a purple polo shirt and shorts... long blond hair hippy...
while everyone else dressed in nice outfits... so... that was that

[Static_In_The_Attic]

It’s all about being comfortable & the last wedding I went to I had on flip flops & a suit. It was also 97. F & the wedding was on the beach might I add.

[wittymilf]

My daughter got married on the weekend... hubby wore snoop Dogg socks when he walked her down the isle.. maybe don’t ask me 😂😂

[ImSparkly]

I plan on wearing my red converse high tops.


Why pay $80US+ for a pair of shoes you will never wear again?

[pajamasam]

My stipulation is that the ladies gotta look killer in their suits and the sneakers have to be out of the box brand new.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

Things change and if it is done tastefully and it is a group thing, not just a single guy where sneakers, then I can accept it. It is really up to her and what she wants. I won't override her wishes on what she wants in her wedding

[lanadelrey25]

It's my wedding, so any girl that accepts to be my bridesmaid will be wearing what I pick out, a dress. And definitely NO sneakers on anybody!

[RobZombiefrver002]

I think it would be cool
Although I'm not a fan of marriage. I think it's just a ceremony and a piece of paper

[1stranger]

If I have a wedding after this age, everyone wears what they want😄

[AlexanderAnttila]

Neither of those. If you show up at my wedding in such a disrespectful farce of attire then out you go, face first.

[Chikky]

Nah, they gonna wear heels for me. The guys can wear sneakers if they want

[Yads_Is_Back]

As long as you’re not my bridesmaids then you’re off the hook

[AFellowWeeb]

i personally think nikes air max or air force all black or white actually look good with suit, its a formal with a touch of casual on it