If she does foreplay and anal bits waitin for the real thing
If she does foreplay and anal I could wait indefinitely. No issue then. Sexual compatibility is a big deal, but you can take one sex act off the table an still have a great sex life. The biggest issues around incompatibility are frequency and style. Frequency the biggest.
I don’t get what guys mean by sexual compatibility
It means a lot of things. It means you want to have sex close enough to the same frequency or are open to some frequency that both of you feel happy with - neither pestered nor starved. It means that your views on enjoying more romantic or more kinky sex are close enough to being aligned. It means kinks that are a big deal for one are something the other is at least sometimes happily enthusiastic to engage in with them. Most people are not very compatible. It’s one of the two biggest reasons for divorce - and that’s looking at people who were close enough to get married in the first place!
Ah got it thanks
Another one I didn’t mention - if one partner is significantly Dom or sub, and the other doesn’t at least lean a little in the complementary way they’re going to struggle to be satisfied. Really people crave more then their partner obliging them. They want a partner who is -into- it.
Ah got it
I agree but so many guys don’t want to
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What if they do foreplay
Great, but still doesn't address the concern on whether or not we're sexually compatible. Would not know unless we had sex.
What about anal
If we're having to haggle, that's a pretty clear sign this wouldn't work out.
I don’t get what the sex compatibility has to do with a relationship you can learn overtime
Yeah? You can learn to like watersports over time? BDSM? Threesomes? Bukkake? Fisting? Clown costumes? Exhibitionism? Sexual humiliation? You have no idea what I'm in to and I have no idea what you're in to and if you've never had sex before, you may not even know what you're in to. But I know I'm not going to learn eat feces during sex, no matter how much I may love you and that may very well leave you sexually unfulfilled and that's going to have a really negative impact on our relationship. So I'd like to know what I'm getting in to before I agree to spend the rest of my life with you or give away half of my hard-earned possessions divorcing you because we didn't address these things beforehand.
Guy on guy is pretty hot I think 🤣
There we go! Now we're making some progress! That's some good stuff to know before we even think about marriage! lol
Ooh blind dating I like it 🤣🤣🤣
Pegging guys is hot I think too
See? Really good stuff to know. Heavily influences my decision to marry or not. lol
You gonna marry me?
omg, are you proposing? ^///^ I haven't ruled it out yet, but we're going a bit too fast. I'd still like to get to know you more.
🤣🤣🤣 ok sounds fair
But you need to propose to me
Of course. The very moment I feel certain I'd want to spend the rest of my life with you. If I'm gonna get married, it's gotta be til death do we part and even then, she might not get off the hook that easy. :p
I get to be on top first though
I got high standards as you can see
Fine by me. Ride it, cowgirl! ^_-
I’m still waiting for the real thing until marriage you know
Foreplay is fun
You do what you've gotta do. I fully respect it. It's just not for me.
Wait so you’re not going to marry me
You haven’t even seen what I can do
Sorry to break your heart, hun. ^_- But like I said, I've got know if we're compatible. What interests we share, how much we value certain things, how we fit together, the chemistry we have in the moment. You can say all the right words, play to all the right emotions, but there's no getting around the real thing. Just as saving your virginity until after marriage is important to you, verifying compatibility is important to me. I would never ask you to budge on your values, but I'm likewise not going to budge on mine. It just wasn't meant to be.
Hey your loss you could be missing out on the girl of your dreams
That very well may be, but if I can't check to see, what choice do I really have? You never sign a contract before reading the fine print, no matter how sweet the promise they make. Perhaps I'm a pessimist, but I don't take anything on faith.
Well I’m short and cute and I’m in love with Elvis he was my first love
Short and cute I like, but I'm more of a Frank Sinatra guy with my oldies. ;)
Hmm def not compatible then 🤣 Elvis is mine
You'd get along well with my dad. He loves Elvis, too. lol
Do you like the oldies
Well, hey. I'll turn off my anonymity. If you ever want to just talk about shit, shoot me a message. Turned out to be a really good conversation. Otherwise, I guess take care. I hope you find what you're looking for, though I'm sure you will. :)
I would love to chat now if you’re up for it
Yeah, I like to go back to some of the classics now and again. Good music stands the test of time.
My inbox is always open. :p Feel free to come right in. lol
Really that’s great
I’m not religious I’m doing it bc I want to
I see, well you get what I mean
Well, that's why you only marry a virgin woman.
@Wewladdy How do u find those rare pokemons these days?
You don't. You settle for a whore or you die single. There's maybe a 10% chance at best at finding a suitable wife and that's if you ask out 10 different women.
@Wewladdy Then women wonder why we don't want to marry or even giving head to them ( don't know what was down there b4 i appeared )
I’m not religious either
I just said it cause mostly this is tied to religious upbringing. But either way, I'm not even dating with girls who thinks that way. But I can definitely respect them and their choices, it's just not a thing for me.
I’m waiting bc I want to not bc I’m religious I’m not ready to give myself away to the wrong man
And if it turns out to be awful with the man you choose for life?
Well I mean I’ll do foreplay but that’s it before marriage I think it just needs to be the right guy for me
Well, I'd rather confirm we are in sync in bed just as in life before I lock myself down with someone till I die. If I don't do that I'm just gambling and hoping that she'll be the one that I desire the same way after years.
You got to get to know the person first before you judge her bc she wants to wait
I'm not arguing that, I'm not the type to jump in bed after the first date, but in my opinion sex is a huge part of marriage (unless you are asexual) and sex alone/or lack there of can destroy it. So if we are compatible in every way, I'm much more confident to get married to that person.
We’ll I know I do want sex and yes I know sex is a big part of marriage
But don't take it like I'm arguing your choice or something like that. If you want to wait, I respect that. We just have different mindsets.A lot of people took my opinion personally offensive, even though I just expressed it.
Oh I understand that completely men and women think differently anyway
I mean I knew a couple guys that wanted to wait, but generally you're right about that 🤷♂️😂
Has nothing to do with religion and EVERYTHING to do with wisdom and self-respect.