my guy and I have been official for 4 mos. now (5 mos. courted) and we are eachother's first gf/bf. when he came over a day before my 1month out of the country trip he decided he wants second base and we did. he asked me if it was okay and I told him "yea ..but we do know each others' limit, right?" my question is what makes a guy decids he wants more? (i'm not used to him being aggressive) what are the hints points that a guy wants more from you...I am planning on saving myself till marriage ... do you think he understands my point when I said "limit" or should I openly talk more about it to him(w/c I don't want to)?
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No, tell him you want to wait until marriage, and yes talk openly about your limits with him2